We have been together for 2 years, moved out of state with our little girl and all, but it seems like he constantly second guesses what i do when he goes to work at night- every one vouches for me that i am true to him, I ALWAYS show how true i am to him, i do everything i can to be a good wife and we always show each other constant affection, but behind my back he will ask people what i do when he goes to work, he even presses *69 when he comes home from work in the morning to see who was the last person who called the house? What do i do? I love this man but i am so fed up!!!
-Feeling embarassed and tired of a man's S#*T!!!
2006-07-28 11:30:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jealously is a sickness, that can drive a person crazy. Sadly there isn't much you can do, to prevent it. It's up to him, to trust you, and overcome his jealously.
Jealousy, has broken up more relationships, that we want to count.
You have to tell him how you feel, and what it is doing to you. It can be overcome, but he has to do it, on his own. Basically, he is insecure, thinking that he isn't worthy of you, and you are too good for him, and that as soon as you find someone better, you will leave him.
Good luck.
2006-07-28 11:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by johnb693 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave now. His insecurity (or guilty conscious) will only spiral out of control over time and eat away at your self esteem. You shouldn't have to 'prove' or 'vouch' for anything. Ditch him, get the child support you'll need for your little girl and stop being the classic example of a human doormat. You do not want your little girl to grow up thinking his behavior is acceptable nor do you want to continue living under a cloud of suspicion.
2006-07-28 18:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are doing all this stuff to show him you are a good and faithful wife and he doesn't get the picture then there isn't much that can be done. he won't stop being jealous unless you decide to go to work with him. your only option might be to leave him.
2006-07-28 18:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by tec97215 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stop worryin, thats what you do. The more you stress out over it, the more he will continue to do it. You don't have to prove yourself to nobody, especially him that you are being a good wife and you're not doing anything. So, as long as you know you aren't doing anything, thats all that matters.
2006-07-28 18:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by sr04model 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes so jeoulus or controlive maybe hes doing the messing around. If you cant have trust you cant have a relationship. Good luck its your life whatever you feel do it for the best.
2006-07-28 18:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by girl176a1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel. i dealt with it for a year and a half and then my husband died from an altercation. i honestly don't know if we'd still be together if he was still alive because i was constantly trying to get it thru to him that i was loyal. now i am in a relationship and putting man thru the same situation i was in with my husband. i am so thankful that he is so patient, because we have been together for 4 years now. :-)
2006-07-28 18:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have asked these questions BEFORE having a baby with him.
Now you are kinda stuck, aren't you?
He sounds like a future wife-beater to me.
2006-07-28 18:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by dork 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, see if he's willing to stop, if not then pack up and leave with your child. If there isn't trust between you, then it's not a healthy relationship.
2006-07-28 18:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have all ready left him. People who is that jealous are dangerous.
2006-07-28 18:35:26 · answer #9 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, stay away from him. He sound a little scary.
2006-07-28 18:33:56 · answer #10 · answered by kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋