have you ever loved someone so much that you fought alot and how do stop fighting so much?

Answer 1

You have to learn to pick and choose your battles. Don't sweat the small stuff. When you fight, yell, curse and accuse - you contaminate the relationship. Just enjoy being in love and let it all go.

Answer 2

Yeah. Actually no. If the question were, "Have you ever THOUGHT you loved etc." then yes.

Anyway, one of the biggest reasons why couples fight is usually because one partner isn't giving the other enough space in the relationship. It's hard to tell sometimes when you're seeing each other too much until the damage has already been done. In this case, I can say with absolute confidence that it's you not giving the other one the space they need. (I'm not being mean to you, nor am I saying the fighting was completely your fault, but because you asked the question, the answer was simple.)

The best course of action if you ever want any hope of repairing a relationship that's gone past this point, is giving your partner some time to cool off before making up, and that's only if you both decide to make up. However, if you do make up, just take my advice and don't choke the relationship up like that again, or you might kill it next time.

Answer 3

I think if you are fighting alot then you do not love each other too much. You may love each other but you may be incompatible; hence the heavy fighting. I have experienced love a few times and I have seen that the greater the love the less the fighting.

Answer 4

It happens way to often, luckily I haven't run into that problem.
What I think is happening, there are two things going on here.
First, love is blind, and is controlled emotionally.
Secondly, we are rational beings, controlled by our brain.
We fall in love, and every thing seems so wonderful, just being with them. Then our rational part takes over and we see those things, that are begining to bug us.
It could be anything, from the way they talk, your lack of common interests. the way they eat. I'm sure you get the idea.
He's one thing, and you are another, and if the differences are wide, then love will eventually die out. The relationship is doomed, as you can't change who you are to suit him, just as he can't for you.
So unless you can find a way, to understand each others point of view, the end is near.
Sorry, but that is what usually happens.

Answer 5

This problem will be anyway soon solved. You will fight the love away.

All people who fight to much with their love lose the love "step by step". It is stupid to make the person that you love feels uncomfortable with you.

If you fight with your love then you are a loser.

You can argue with him about some things, but make the life not bad for him or he will find another person that makes the life not miserable for him.

Answer 6

Yes. My ex and I cant get along together yet we both admitt we are madly in love with one another. I have discovered why though. Both of us have been craped on before by others and neither of us will give an inch for fear of getting hurt again. She wants me to kow tow to her and I want her to kow tow to me. Neither of us will.

Answer 7

what a funny & wierd question. i think i am going through this right now with my man. i didn't think it was loving him to much that caused the fighting. why do you say this??

Answer 8

find the cause of why yr fighting. must be something troubling either of you that comes out when you disagree which makes matters worse

Answer 9

my ex claim he did and we fought alot but he was obsessed.

Answer 10

you don't unless you just stop being mad. wake up everyday and say i will not be angry today, i will have a good day. and remember you can't change anyone, they have to change themselfs.