we have verbally insulted each other once, but we have little fights here and there but not as big as they were before, we love each other alot and want to get married, is it safe to say that we can still make it happen?
2006-07-28 11:15:20 · 13 answers · asked by DOINK 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds as if you guys have an unresolved issue somewhere. I've learned that when me and my b/f fight, its because there is something that is bothering one of us and we don't know how to bring it up.
Communication is KING in a relationship. When you talk to eachother use "I" sentences instead of "You". For example, "You never throw out the garbage" can be said, "I get upset when I need to throw something away and the garbage is full, we agreed that was going to be your chore to do." If you're in love and know that relationships take WORK and you need to WORK at them, you'll be fine.
Think before you speak and if you start getting angry, take a time out and come back to it later. Hope I helped... =)
2006-07-28 11:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by angiesdabomb 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just compromise and talk, try to respect one another's thoughts and feelings and opinions, if you really love one another of course you can make it work. Nothing is perfect and a real relationship takes alot of effort and work. Of course there will be fights but it is how you handle them and grow from the experience each time and you'll be like "wow won't say or do that again" lol---good luck
2006-07-28 18:20:49 · answer #2 · answered by zeekandthefam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you guys are serious about tying the knot should really consider marriage counseling first, just to work out the kinks. You guys need to figure out the triggers to your fights and ways to diminish them. Once you get to really love someone it is easier to fight and bicker, but just give it a try next time you all start to fight just try to stop and look at it from the outside in.
2006-07-28 18:21:44 · answer #3 · answered by cutie pie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually believe it or not, i think its good that you fight alot every relationship will have its fights. Its healthy for a relationship to have fights, it lets u know where u stand and if u are able to make up after evrytime, and it only makes ur love stronger. Its more real and if u have fights.
2006-07-28 18:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by rickysol82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you get married I would recommend counseling. It won't hurt to learn how to respect each other and it sounds like that is what is lacking in this relationship. Anything is possible if you make a genuine effort.
2006-07-28 18:20:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
real love..does not insult or hurt...the other persons feelings. i would bear that in mind. second.. respect... and most of all communication... you should express what you like or dislike and how words stated affects each other. little fights will develop into large one after awhile and one day one of you..will say something so painful..that you can not take back and it will truly be over.
2006-07-28 18:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can vent with each other you are lucky. Neither of you can ever be perfect and if you can iron out differences it is for the better. Too many people bottle things up inside until they finally explode.
2006-07-28 18:25:49 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is safe. learn to compromise with each other, realionships are give and take both of you can't be happy all the time but as long as your happy togather and love each other that's all that matters.besides making up is the best part.
2006-07-28 18:21:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you two fighting about?? if it's just little stuff then don't sweat it. if it's major maybe you guys just need to sit down and discuss what your problems are with each other then go from there.
2006-07-28 18:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u have fights and how can u love each other if u do
2006-07-28 18:19:20 · answer #10 · answered by tomboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋