I am in a strange situation. I know this girl for some time but we weren't really close friends and a few days ago we went out and I asked her to be my g-f. She said she wants to think about it for a day or 2. Having no choice, I accepted. After 2 days we met again and she told me she hasn't made up her mind yet and even since I tried to convince her...nothing. Even she isn't sure when she will decide. I hate this situation. Can anyone give me some advice?
2006-07-28 11:15:16 · 7 answers · asked by kriminal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a no.. but she doesn't want to hurt your feelings by coming right out and saying no..
2006-07-28 11:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by nobodysangel_nobodysfool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I hate to say this friend...but her "silence" or lack of decision should sort of give you a clue. I wouldn't take it personal, it sounds like you are having anxiety over this.
It wouldn't hurt if you said a prayer, asking the Lord for His input/wisdom/advice...The Lord is generous in giving wisdom where your future and life is concerned...get on track w/ what really matters. & if she doesn't see having a relationship w/ you something that matters....then let it go best you can. It's a waste of your time and energy. There is someone out there more deserving of you. Best of everything!
2006-07-28 18:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by diane b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen I do this all the time and when I do this It is because I don't want to be in a relationship with the guy or at the moment, and because she is stalling that tells me that she likes you as a friend only and she don't want to hurt your feeling by telling you no, but still wants to remain your friend. That is exactly the situation trust me I do it all the time.
2006-07-28 18:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by britt7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, leave her alone. This shouldn't be such a difficult decision. This doesn't look good for the rest of any relatioship you might have with her.
2006-07-28 18:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on.... If the feelings are not mutual and openly expressed you need to find other more receptive candidates.
2006-07-28 18:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by Lifetime Learner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, let it go. I'm going to assume you are a minor.
2006-07-28 18:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her that you cant just wait around forever for her decision. tell her if she doesnt want to be with you just tell you so that you can move past it.
2006-07-28 18:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by standstill 22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋