Ok. well this 17 year old i met at a hot tub with my friend, and hung out with, with my friend, 3 times to date, wants to go to a hot tub in a couple of days. But what's different about this time is she doesn't want my friend to go. She just wants it to be me, her, and one of her girl friends. Me and my friend both like her, and would date her if she wanted to. In the past she's said she's liked him (they have a history, but they just recently started talking and hanging out). She's always said she liked him, but she always hangs out with me at the hot tub, and ignores him sorta. But i've asked her if she likes me, and she's said "i don't really know you", which is true because we've only hung out 3 times. So my question is..........since she doesn't want him to go.......and she's bringing a friend of hers to meet me........what does she/they have in mind if we do go just the three of us? I'm assuming her friend is 17 like her, and i'm 16. I'd appreciate any insight or advice
2006-07-28 11:13:44 · 8 answers · asked by high heat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I certainly wouldn't mind doing "stuff" with them (except sex, no sex of course at my age), but idk if that's what they have in mind or not. Maybe she simply wanted me to meet one of her friends and hang out like the past 3 times. I'm just confused on why she doesn't want my friend to go.
2006-07-28 11:15:40 · update #1
I think the girl is bringing a friend so the situation is not awkard with the two of you. She probably doesnt want you to feel like its a date. however if I were you if you really like her take charge and show her!
2006-07-28 11:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want to double team you in the hot tub because they are junior sluts. Don't fall for it. You shouldn't do anything with either of them.That's a good way to catch mono, or something even more disgusting!
2006-07-28 18:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a trap. SOunds to me she either wants sex or to get you into trouble. It's possible she and the other girl want to do a two on one. Or they're conspiring. You can go along if you want to, but I think you don't want to, and that you should insiste that yoru friend join you and them. Travel in twos, as they say.
2006-07-28 18:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep your friend, I wouldn't go.. Sounds like she is playing both of you, kick her to the curb and find a good girl..
2006-07-28 18:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by angela r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you had better join the French Foreign Legion and depart for parts unknown as fast as you can.
2006-07-28 18:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like she is interested in you and doesn't want your friend there b/c he would be in the way. wants her friend there for support only probably. go for it. just don't do anything you don't feel comfortable with.
2006-07-28 18:23:00 · answer #6 · answered by star77840 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
btw girls are hard to decifer and they purposely want to confuse guys...this means she probably is interested in you
Good Luck
2006-07-28 18:17:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
curb time
2006-07-28 18:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by Chuck Norris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋