i love my dad but i'm doin exactly the oposite of what he wants he made me brake up wit my boyfrien but were back 2gether and having sex. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-07-28 11:13:05 · 7 answers · asked by Kendra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You have to live your life for you b/c no one else can give you what you need to be happy but you. i realize you love your father, but you have to make yourself happy. At first he will be upset, but he is your father and I'm sure eventually he will come around.
Also you need to know that if your father does not like this person you are with there must be a reason. Parents have been around the block a time or two and they are usually right when they say they know what is best.
Try to find a happy medium between what you want and what your dad wants. Always listen to your heart.
2006-07-28 11:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
first off, depending on your age, your dad might be right about you not seeing this guy. If you are young, then your dad is just watching out for you. He might just see something in this guy that you can't.. you know that they say that love is blind. Sometimes it takes someone on the outside looking in to see something that you can't. Talk to your dad and ask him shy he did not want you to see this guy, and if it is a good enough reason, you might break it off again, if is is just because, and you are old enough, then stay with him. Just remember that you will have your lover (husband ) around when your dad is gone, so make sure you make the right choice.
2006-07-28 18:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are. Why did your Dad want you to break up? Have you stopped to think this over. Just maybe your dad has a good sense of what is best for you.Why are you haveing sex? Is it to get even with your Dad? I think you should take a day or so to yourslef and ask yourself all knid of questions and then decide what you really want to do.
2006-07-28 18:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by Big Sis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad may have good reason to want you to break up with him...do you know why? Talk to him. Maybe his points are important and you should consider them. But also, use this time to stress your boyfriend's good points, maybe he'll change his mind. In any case, you have to tell him what your decision is and ask him not to accept him but to at least be civil with your boyfriend. Otherwise, let him know that you'll choose to keep them both apart so that neither one offends the other.
2006-07-28 18:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by bitto luv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should follow your heart and that little voice in your head. You are not living your life for you dad you are living it for you. just make sure you are safe when you are having sex and tell your dad you value his opinion and you do take what he says into consideration and that the choices you have made are well thought out and that you are doing what makes you happy. just let him know that you do hear him and that you do value his opinion.
2006-07-28 18:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by Shay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what should you do about what? Going against what your dad wants you to do? Well, as long as you are a minor, if you are one, I would suggest respecting his wishes, demands, whatever. When you turn 18, if you're not already, then do what cha like (humty hump) but if you are over 18, go with your heart. We all disappoint our parents sometimes.
2006-07-28 18:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by valerie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first off you aren't going to be happy in life if you do everything for your parents, if you love the guy stay with him but at the same time don't stay with him if it is just to rebel.
2006-07-28 18:17:02 · answer #7 · answered by Nancy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋