he's had a g/f for 3 years and him and I get along really well should I even bring it up to him?? It would totally be a wam bam thank you mam kind of thing but I dont know if I should!
2006-07-28 11:05:25 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, is that all you think of yourself? come on now, i think you're better than that. even though you both get along, doesn't mean you have to give it up. i'm sure there are tons of guys out there waiting to go out with you.
2006-07-28 11:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in the g/f's shoes... if you were her, and your b/f "wam bam thank you ma'am-d" some girl at work, how would you feel?... I totally understand what you're going through, but a "wam bam" is funner with a single guy... This way you don't have to worry about the g/f finding out and wanting to or possibly kicking your @$$. Cuz they never leave the guy and they ALWAYS come after the "other" girl. So find that SINGLE cute guy at work and 'git r done'. LOL
2006-07-28 11:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by angiesdabomb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anytime u get involve with someone u work with there are consequences. he may be the type that will spread your business around the work place. its just to risky especially if its a wam bam thank u mam kind of thing.
2006-07-28 11:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by Icandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might buy some condoms and tell him you have been selected to test condoms and need some help. Put a questionaire on a clipboard and check out a few different styles. Type up questions such as is it too tight and is the color okay and yaddah. In the name of consumer testing he will most likely help you and there would be no committment or anything.
2006-07-28 11:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want to open a can of worms at your place of employment? there is a saying to" never s--t were you eat." another saying" never mix business with pleasure". if you have a disagreement..then you are seeing each other in a more professional atmosphere which could be awkward and affect both of your job performances. i say find another guy in another place. a final saying is "you reap what you sow." meaning down the road..when you find the man of your dreams..do not complain when a woman comes along and messes with him. you are being paid back..no matter how long it takes.
2006-07-28 11:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it will only b disastrous u all work together and c each other to much and emotions and feelings will come up at work. and he has a gf is he willing 2 cheat on her for a 1 timer dint even bring it up because it could turn out 2 b a bad experience.
2006-07-28 11:10:25 · answer #6 · answered by mf mf mf mf mf fmf mf mfmfmfmfmf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he still has a girlfriend then that's a hell no. But if not then i suggest you try a relationship type of approach but not just a one night stand because next thing you know you go to work and what does he want again, sex. Yeah that's right. And if you deny him it then things could get a little sticky and awkward at your work place.
2006-07-28 11:09:28 · answer #7 · answered by Chidi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it with a guy that has a girlfriend because if he really wanted you the n he would be with you. Trust me, you'll regret it later. If you do it all you will be is a bootycall. He obviously isnt interested in a serious relationship with you. Dont do it, you're worth way more than that honey.
~Rickeisha
2006-07-28 11:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by Rickeisha AKA Keisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally I say stay away from ALL office romances...they'll lead to disaster...but if this is just a slick and wick, you should give the guy a thrill.
2006-07-28 11:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by theoldguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Risky. Is he realy worth probably messing up your work situation as you know it'll be uncomfortable in the future. If he really is worth bonking, go for it but don't say I did not warn you.
2006-07-28 12:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by fugutastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋