A returned a message to a guy online that had no pic in his profile. He offered to send me a pic with or without pants. I told him no thanks. He said that I was being a fuddy duddy. I just have some standards and am not interested in seeing some loser without his pants. I think it is rude and trashy of him to even suggest that when he is on a legitimate dating sight, not a swingers sight.
2006-07-28 10:46:57 · 22 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I am a fuddy duddy because I agree with you that it was trashy of him. I believe we have better standards than that.If he is on a dating site I feel he should be posting a pic of himself there.If he has no pic posted that usually means he doesnt want someone(usually their spouse) to see him there.
2006-07-28 10:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by justme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not a fuddy duddy. The guy doesn't even realize what a douche bag he really is. Stick to your guns and your standards. You will meet someone with a little more class and the same standards you have for yourself. Good luck!
2006-07-28 17:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by jhrkickin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU GO GIRL!!! We teach people how to treat us. You respected yourself enough to say "Nope, sorry, not that kind of woman."
Whether it's fuddy duddy or not, it was the right thing to do. Too many women on these sights will offer themselves up like roasted chicken on a plate. You're God's creation....and dating is for dinners, lunches, picnics, getting to know each other, learning whether or not you can communicate with each other. Boyfriends and Girlfriends are not supposed to be having sex, living together, and having illegitimate children.
What a breath of fresh air you've given me. thanks!!!
2006-07-28 17:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
course your not a fuddy duddy hes just being a man, but not all men are like that, but good look on finding a good man since lately they are far in few in between
2006-07-28 17:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by Quasar1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u are not a fuddy duddy. and u know what, even if u were, SO WHAT??? what's it to him? he's just pissed cuz he's nasty and ur not. don't even let it bother u.. i remember someone called me a prude cuz i didn't want to go too far w/ him before we were bf/gf. turned out he didn't even WANT to be serious, but he just wanted some!!! stupid jerk. does it make me a prude for not wanting to give up sex to a stupid, disgusting pervert?? nope! so be strong in ur morals and what YOU want in a guy, and what YOU want in a relationship. as long as you are comfortable w/ that, no one should ever make you feel bad about it. don't hang around people who put u down, surround urself w/ people who lift u up and make u want to be a Better person. there are many people out there who will judge you w/o thinking; and those guys are not the ones u want to date, much less see them w/ or w/o their pants.
OOH might i add he probably was OLLLLD if he used that term! probably lying about his age!! ewwww~~
2006-07-28 17:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, fuddy duddy. First, he was probably just trying to be funny. Second, you use the term fuddy duddy.
2006-07-28 17:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by ironcityveteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not a fuddy duddy? You seem to be very smart about things.
2006-07-28 17:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have been as polite as you were. It was out of line for the guy to even suggest giving you a picture of himself without his pants. Why is it that the converastion can go from something as innocent as the weather to something sexual?
2006-07-28 17:50:33 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive never heard of a fuddy duddy...is tht like bein prude???
2006-07-28 17:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, you're right. In his opinion, you're wrong.
Here's the deal: you have the right to be whomever you are. If you aren't interested in meeting his Mr. Happy before you've had a chance to get to know HIM, then that's who you are. If he can't deal with that, that is HIS problem. Not yours.
Congratulations! You managed to avoid someone TOTALLY inappropriate for you before you ever had to waste good lip gloss on him!
2006-07-28 17:50:59 · answer #10 · answered by kimberhands 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋