Dont get me wrong, my boyfriend is a great guy, but im really attracted to his best friend. I think his best friend likes me too. He's a great guy and i think he would be a better boyfriend. I dont know what to do. Help!!!
2006-07-28 10:43:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well... it's not like your the first one whose ever have this happened. There is no good way to leave your boyfriend. You would just have to be prepared to be hated for a long long time. The question is, is this best friend worth it? And what are your priorities in life. Do you want to life your life having what you want no matter the cost or do you want to be a decent person and sacrifice what you want in order not to hurt anyone? Tough choice no right or wrong answer.
2006-07-28 10:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by Mikkos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend keeping away from the best friend until AFTER you break up with your boyfriend. Then you'll be free to move forward. Don't even think about seeing both at the same time, that's a headache no one needs! Besides, if you do that, then the best friend will know that you're the kind of girl who cheats. He'll think less of you and won't treat you as well.
Unless he's a scuzz, that is, in which case he'll love it that he's betraying his best friend.
2006-07-28 10:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have no tied to either one, you can come and go as you like. However... he and his best friend have a tie to each other. You will be coming between them, even if the best friend likes you, too. So... you have to ask yourself if you care what your boyfriend will think when he becomes your ex-, and you have to ask yourself if you want to be the reason your soon-to-be-ex and his best friend never speak again. There will be a problem between them, and, potentially, they'll no longer be friends.
If you don't care... then just tell the best friend how you feel.
2006-07-28 10:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by BeenThere69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to look at this would be to put the shoe on the other foot. How would you feel?
My suggestion/advice in a case where emotions seem to gain more ground than morals.....is to pray to the one who knows the beginning from the end...who created relationships and the bonds that keep them together...Yes..."The Lord Himself"...who is always generous in shedding light, and giving wisdom to those who pray and ask Him....
I do wish you the best w/ this decision...but I think you already know the right thing to do....
2006-07-28 10:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by diane b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee i think that is lousy....one thing his friend would not be much of a friend and i do not think you are much of a girlfriend..really why would you want to go out with your boyfriends best friend..you could cause hard feelings and you could lose them both...why hurt anyone if you do not care enough for your boyfriend then break up with him...then somewhere down the road if this othe guy really wants to see you let him make the first move...not you...
2006-07-28 10:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly he would desire to easily end the dating with your chum. whether that's a severe, sturdy dating then he could make the attempt to come again decrease back and notice her on a many times occurring foundation and for her to make many times occurring visits to verify him. whether it is not likely that this is going to happen on one or eithers section i could advise they end the dating amicably till now he leaves extremely than your chum moping approximately for an prolonged time through fact she doens't see him etc. As for him no longer wnating to declare so long through fact it makes him unhappy tell him that boys are allowed to cry each and every so often and this seems a solid adequate reason of him to be unhappy. Why no longer throw him a touch marvel celebration, organise some beverages etc so as that he can say godbye to definitely everyone and characteristic relaxing on an identical time. there are lots of assistance on the thank you to maintain touch as quickly as he has moved- telephone, e mail, letter so he can stay in touch together with his genuine friends. I merely think of it may be hard to proceed the dating he has with your chum. whether that's meant to be they're going to artwork it out and placed the attempt in to verify one yet another.
2016-10-01 05:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if that backfire....think about why you got with your boyfriend in the first place I don't think you should date his best friend.....if you are not happy with your current boyfriend then go and find another boyfriend but don't mess with his best friend
2006-07-28 10:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by Jo3-Jo3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not to be trusted; you just want to sleep around, if it wasn't your boyfriend's best friend, it would be someone else---you are lying through your teeth when you rave about your boyfriend...if he's all that you say...then I really feel sorry for him in the long run...what a slut you are.
2006-07-28 10:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are pretty selfish to leave an already great guy and break his heart. And you'll probably ruin their relationship in the process. You are a scumbag if you do this to them. I'm sure you are pretty young, but its time to grow up about this.
2006-07-28 10:48:44 · answer #9 · answered by gregthedesigner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear about that.you can't help how you feel.could you talk to him with out your boyfriend knowing.how good of a friend are they?you just have to fallow your heart.it might hurt him at first but life is to short to live unhappy.hope things work out for you!
2006-07-28 10:53:09 · answer #10 · answered by bea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋