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I went to a prostitute to have my regular fix and guess who i saw.....my dad, having a romp. He's married to my mum and has been diagnosed with HIV. How could he do this??? I want to forgive him, but i just can't. He's betrayed mum!!!

2006-07-28 10:43:08 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

39 answers

And he broke the law unless he used a condom. You cannot have sex without using protection is you are HIV positive and know it. Your dad should be ashamed because I'm sure your mother loves him very much. Maybe it's time you sat and had a long, serious talk with him about this matter.

2006-07-28 10:46:12 · answer #1 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 0 0

You have to tell your mum! Otherwise she could get HIV from your dad. You also have to tell the prostitute he was with, in case she has it and passes it on to other people - this could include you in the end, so it's well worth the effort!

If you do nothing and stay quiet, various people may end up with HIV and it will be your fault because you could have prevented it. Sounds like I'm laying a big guilt trip on you, but do you honestly think there's any other acceptable way of looking at the situation?

Once you've got that sorted out, ONLY THEN should you think about forgiving your Dad.

2006-07-28 11:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by Alex 42 2 · 0 0

ya best hope ya dad hasnt had a regular fix with the prostitute you use otherwise you could end up HIV as for ya dad maybe because he is hiv he dosent sleep with ya mum anymore he has needs just like anyone else so long as he bags it and warns the prostitute of his condition let him alone

2006-07-28 10:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by omnigomni 3 · 0 0

Wow, that's bad. It's not only bad because he selfishly betrayed your mum, it's also horrible that he exposed another person to HIV...I would have to say put some distance between the two of you until you have come to a conclusion. I'm sorry.

2006-07-28 10:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 0 0

Ok..don't know alot of prsonal details here but can I just say

POT, KETTLE and BLACK!
C'mon, he may have betrayed your mum, but thats between him and her...and as far as being diagnosed with HIV and seeing prostitutes.....I think you'd better get yourself checked out mate!

2006-08-01 05:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by Honey 2 · 0 0

Tell your mom..please!!!. As far as the authorities.. it's up to you because you can get into trouble too.. You were visiting a prostitute as well. You can't judge your dad about going to the same places that you yourself are frequenting.

2006-07-28 11:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by laughinggirlfullofjoy 2 · 0 0

your the sad 1 for having the regular fixes. sory to hear about the HIV

2006-07-28 10:46:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

hiya,your right your dad has behaved very badly both morally and irresponsibly in my opinion because not only has he betrayed your mum both physically and emotionally but he is also putting othe people at risk - (lets hope he pracised safe sex!)

I believe you should confront him with it and how angry you are with him and tell him what you saw and listen to what he says and you can make your decision on how you are going to handle the situation..
all the best to you!

2006-07-28 11:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by maidenrocks 3 · 0 0

Wow, that's really deep. I know it might be hard 4 u 2 4-give him, but u hvae no choice but to. Now I'm not saying u have to right away. But u have 2 find the courage 2 be tha bigger person and 4-give him. I do think that he should not be doing anything with anyone because of his disease. But that's not ur place nor mine 2 say wat he shud or shud not do. I wud write more but i gtg

2006-07-28 10:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Depp 2 · 0 0

Talk to your dad its sounds like you both need help. Not much help i know but god man you should be dating not paying for sex you will end up getting hiv like your dad if you carry on !!!

2006-07-28 11:02:25 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

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