ok well ive been datin this guy who i've liked for over a year and half but we've been dating for 8 months now. im in luv w/ him and we luv being around eachother and we r the closest we hav ever been. my friend says we wont last that me and my bf will get tired of eachother and break up. i want to marry him but im young and marraige is a long way away. do u think my friend is right? do u think my bf and i will get tired of eachother and break up soon?
2006-07-28 10:42:59 · 16 answers · asked by fluteplayer1300 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nahh.. don't worry about it. It sounds like your friend is a bit jealous of what you have. And no it isn't likely that you guys will stay together, but there is always that chance. So enjoy it while you have it and kno that whats meant to be will always find a way to be. Best of luck~& kudos for 8months!
2006-07-28 10:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Dont believe anyone if you start to believe it you will give up and start to not care about your relationship because you'll think that it's doomed already so why try. Well I can tell you from expierence that me and my fiance. Have been together for 8 months also and we got engaged when we were dating for 4 months. I've known him for years before that but that's besides the point I just graduated high school. And though I know that marriage is a good ways a way from our future also. I know that we will never get tired of each other. I've had lots of heart break in my life and I finally found someone who I love unconditionally and will always be there for no matter what and I know that he will always be my rock and sometimes my hard place lol. But the thing that matters most to me and should matter to you is that dont listen to what other people say. Listen to your heart and do what it says only in doing this can you and will you understand that if you want your love to last forever do everything in your power to make it work. Hope this helps
2006-07-28 11:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by KC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend may be right, or may be not. After some period you will see. Me and my boyfriend (who is also my best friend) have been dating for almost an year. And at the moment we love each other more than ever, although we argue a lot but it's never serious. I don't know how long this will last but we both hope it to be as long as possible. So my advice is - enjoy your beautiful relationship and don't think how it would end. Everything can happen. So, don't bother about that. Be happy with what you have and appreciate all the love your boyfriend gives you :)
2006-07-28 10:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by ChillyღAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scientifically, when you start dating someone, you are on a high. This high lasts for around a year. So 8 mths in is too short of a time to tell if you truly love him or if you are just "in love" because of high emotions.
Can you imagine standing by him in poorer, in sickness, etc? Could your relationship survive arguments and fights and children and financial problems?
Don't make a mistake when you are young. Someone I know ran away to marry her boyfriend and now the whole family is being ripped apart emotionally.
2006-07-28 10:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by retzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, not to make you scared or anything, but "I" do think your friend is right. I have so much of experience with that with my friends and whomever else I know that its pitiful. Right now, that is just "puppy love" talking. It will seem fine and dandy in the beginning, but later on you guys will get tired of each other. And it will be worse when you get married. You see, if you get married at an early age, then that means that you would have started your life entirely too early and it won't be good for either of you. It is likely that he, or you will want to "play" and won't be able to because you are involved. And when you do play, it CHEATING!!! People who get married at an early age are the most curious people because they have only been with one person since the marriage. Like I said, it will be fine and dandy in the beginning, but you guys will want to "play" later on, meaning, messing with someone other than their spouse. So, my advice to you is to take it slow and think ahead. Don't jump into anything you will regret later on. Save yourself alot of heartache by thinking before you act. You are the one to make the decision, No one can do it for you.
2006-07-28 10:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by sr04model 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young love is one that is very deep and can be just as bad as it is good. You may not stay together but you will always have a place in your heart for this person. My advice dont get married. Wait, experience life and then if you still are in love get married settle down and have a family.
2006-07-28 10:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by Kim S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may or may not get married, but you will love him for the rest of your life if this is your first true love. No one will ever compare, even though they may seem to initially.
Good luck.
2006-07-28 10:47:03 · answer #7 · answered by keepingitreal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have like maybe a 5% chance of always staying together
2006-07-28 10:46:02 · answer #8 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its possible!! because i know sum elderly couples that said they've been together since middle school!! and u guys sound like a cute couple, and it sounds like he's treatin u right. ur friend isnt a true friend if she had to tell u that!!
2006-07-28 10:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by AMARI J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first how old are you?
second love is unpredictable you never know what can happen next. one day your both in love the next your breaking up and before you know it your back together and your getting married.
2006-07-28 10:47:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋