2006-07-28 10:38:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Babygirl, you shouldnt lie just because it gets YOU so stressed that you break down!! you can either do like the other girls said and get tested for real then not tell him but say you decide not to tell him then you get your results back ,and im not saying you got something but if the results come back and they say you do then you have to tell him either that or just break up with him. but i know you dont want to do that. so just follow your heart about it if i were you i would say to him look i didnt get tested because it wasnt fair that i had to and you werent there with me . so tell him if he wants you to sooo bad then tell him he has to go with you and get tested to even if he just got tested it wouldnt hurt nething. and it would be nice to have your hubby there for support! good luck!
2006-07-28 10:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it is scary but you need to get tested because that feeling will never go away until you do. The longer you wait the worse off you will be. Not only that, you may be infecting other people. Today there are many different medications out that will help you live a long life. This will probably be the scarest thing youll ever do but it has to be done. I'll pray for you.
2006-07-28 10:49:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get tested and if everything is ok, be quiet.
Why did you lie in the first place? Look at the initial issue.
Separate issue, why are you scared to tell him. Do you think having to face the consequence of breaking someone's trust might mean you'll break up. Don't focus on this. The is the outfall of the primary issue. Take care of testing first.
2006-07-28 10:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get tested immediately and pray everything comes out negative. If it does, then you don't have to tell him that you lied and you make a promise to yourself that you will never lie to him again,
If you do get bad test results, you have to tell him immediately as it will affect him also. Then you'll just have to apologize and hope for the best. Good luck.
2006-07-28 10:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if he did the same to you. This obviously an important step in your relationship with a person who is mature enough to take precautions. You don't seem like you are ready to be in a serious committed relationship. Get tested. I feel sorry for your unsuspecting boyfriend. He needs to know how deceitful you are. You don't play with issues such as this. Grow Up!
2006-07-28 10:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by Poetess_4U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of test did you lie about? is it something that is very important to both of you or just an ordinary test. tell him about it so you don't carry this heavy load over your shoulders. "it's better late than never." what if he finds out from another person? what then?
2006-07-28 10:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by Nica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go get tested and then what you told him will be the truth you did go get tested
2006-07-28 10:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jo3-Jo3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get tested ASAP. That way you can say that you did get tested, but that when you first said that you did you hadnt been.
Go now. Seriously. Call and make an appt.
2006-07-28 10:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by kari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u need to go get tested u shouldnt get tested for him though u need to get tested for yourself because its more important that u kno than if he knows but u do need to get tested snd tell him the truth ok well good luck
2006-07-28 10:46:22 · answer #9 · answered by that one girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get tested- you didn't tell him WHEN did you?
If you are talking STD'd- if he's been treated and you haven't he will be reinfected and that will cause problems
if you're talking pregnancy- it's better to know early so you can provide good care for the baby!
2006-07-28 10:42:36 · answer #10 · answered by mominshoe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋