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He showed a clear interest on me after that and on the phone he promise several times that he will write me an email next Thursday and then he never does?
(We live 5 hours by car away from each other)

Is there any excuse or is he just a liar? Why does he have to lie? Is he afraid of something? If so, can I do something to make him feel comfortable and at ease?

Should I contact him to ask if something happened and somehow recover at least the possibility of a friendship or shall I just ignore him and take his actions as a clear sign that he doesn't want to communicate with me anymore?

2006-07-28 10:30:53 · 17 answers · asked by theholylight 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

17 answers

HE'S NOT WORTH YOUR TIME!!!

2006-08-05 02:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by Mo 6 · 0 0

well i would hope that you could least remain friends.. i would call him once and see what he had to say.. then if he does not contact you after that then you know that he is just a jerk and just wanted one thing..i know that you have to be real careful out there and i think some of them guys just want one thing and will lie and say whatever line they have to....men just do that, they lie so much..it is not the same as with some of us women..i have to have feelings for the man but a man can just get it on without really having heart felt feelings.. just turn them and and off they go.. i hope i answered this the way i meant to and i would not feel bad because you are not the first one that this has happened too..some has even said they loved the girl and did not mean it at all...being 5 hours a way could have some to do with it too.. long distance relationships are hard to make work anyway...

2006-07-28 10:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0 0

My best friend's son is my age. We were pretty close friends as well. One day we slept together. As a matter of fact, I got pregnant as a result. We haven't spoken much and he never knew I was pregnant, I miscarried early on before I could tell him.
Now our friendship isn't the same at all. He and his mother share an apartment and when I go see his mom we seem to avoid each other.

If u were friends before, it probably won't be the same but try to work on it. If you didn't know him before, just let him go.

2006-07-28 10:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by real_sweetheart_76 5 · 0 0

When you two crossed the line from friends to intimacy then things changed and from a guys point of view they could never look at you the same no matter how hard they try. Maybe him distancing himself is his way to deal with the situation. He needs to come to terms with how he was affected by it and eventually he may come around. Maybe you should ask him in an e-mail how he feels things changed between the two of you and if he has any regrets. Good luck.

2006-07-28 10:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by Blu 2 · 0 0

do not contact him. i think that he may have been after only one thing. he is a liar, and some people will say anything. find someone that will treat you right and not just use you to get what he wants. if he doesn't contact u in s sensible amount of time, it may be hard, but maybe you should forget about him and move on.

2006-07-28 10:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by bumblebee 5 · 0 0

That's usually the end of the relationship. I saw "Failure to Launch," and I was all OVER that movie!! The writer of the script, did it right!! Guys REALLY DO dump the girl after making love. SOMETIMES it's the GIRL that does it. But, when it's OVER? The the water flow down stream. More water will be certain to follow.

2006-07-28 10:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by thewordofgodisjesus 5 · 0 0

My #1 rule in life is "DON'T GO OUT WITH A FRIEND...LET ALONE DO IT WITH HIM." Friendship is the most valuable thing for me. I keep my friends. Going out or doing it with a friend breaks up the relationship. His being quiet and doesn't keep in touch with you is a clear indication that he doesn't want to have anything to do with you so don't even think of getting in touch with him. Let that be a lesson to you.

2006-07-28 10:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by Nica 1 · 0 0

You should dump him and move on. Long distance relationships are hard enough even if things are going good. If there's already some communication problems, they're just going to get worse.

2006-07-28 10:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by Shooter 2 · 0 0

Your being to clingy, treat him liek you dont care either way, and he will respond. DONT CALL HIM!!! Hes being a typical guy, Ive been there and done that, then I found a guy who loves me, but I ignored him in the begining. Its all a game, life is a game.

2006-07-28 10:35:02 · answer #9 · answered by Me 2 · 0 0

well as my brother refers to it. hes already got the "goop". lol hes already made his move and you let him hit. more and likely it sounds to me like it was just a one night stand! you should alwayz preceed with caution when you want more than just booty. sounds to me like thats all he was after. just a good lay. im sry ma hate to put it to u like that. but thats what it sounds like.

contact him and if he doesnt contact back then yup more and likely thats what it was.

2006-07-28 10:37:51 · answer #10 · answered by lizlatina69 2 · 0 0

hes a liar

2006-07-28 10:33:47 · answer #11 · answered by Laurie R 2 · 0 0

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