he just broke up- with me
2006-07-28 10:29:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he broke up with you, then he didn't really love you, did he? That's all that matters, hon. If he didn't want you, you don't need him. Somewhere out there there's a guy that WILL care about you and want to be with you.
2006-07-28 10:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by Allison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course ur going to be sad.. :(... however, u have to realize and accept that there was something wrong in the relationship.. why else would he break it off? whether it was him, you, or mutual, there's no use in dwelling in the past...i'm sure u had good and bad moments, but in the end, you want a bf who takes care of you, who loves and cares for you, and you can *trust* with all ur heart. make sure u find a guy who will treat you right, and satisfies all ur wants, needs and makes u feel secure. i would suggest just working on urself for awhile; take care of ur appearance, ur knowledge, ur ability to keep friends, stay positive, maintain good relationship w/ family; that way, as u start feeling better and better about urself, u'll realize that u are a great, beautiful girl, and any guy would be lucky to have you! that way u can filter out all the bad ones and know that the guy u want has to be good enough for u, just as u are working on urself so that u are good for that special someone. this old guy, he's the past now.... cherish the good, but move and find someone who will make u feel safe and happy, not sad and alone.
2006-07-28 17:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put it in perspective with the rest of your life....you probably will have several other boyfriends and this one gave you a few lessons. learn from it. be glad that you didn't spend too much of your life with him if he didn't really love you (or if he finally figured out that he didn't have that deep of a feeling for you). don't be too hard on yourself. it happens to EVERYONE!!!
it will work out for the best, you'll meet someone who really does love you, and please don't settle for someone who doesn't. you deserve to be loved. so take some time to heal....put that smile back on your face and know that there are a lot of guys who'd love to be in love with a sweet caring person like you.
stay real and don't pretend to be or act like anyone but yourself.
you will find a better fit that way.
Best Wishes for Future Happiness:)))
2006-07-28 17:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by rooster2381 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of the worst thing to get over is being broke up with but i wouldn't know that because ive always broke up with them but u should find a new guy to like and if he still likes u witch he prolly still does then he will get jealous butif he doesn't thenstay with the neewe guy
2006-07-28 17:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by hot_blonde_2952 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ifhe try to come back dont let him cry a little get mad get anger
then get over him there are so guys out there belive me you will be allright
2006-07-28 17:38:57 · answer #5 · answered by sallymaxlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new one thats better then the old one ;)
2006-07-28 17:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jason C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋