so i met this really cool guy last friday through some friends and we went back to their place to hang out. we exchanged numbers and all, and i called him monday to tell him what a good time i had hanging out with him. so he called me back and asked if i wanted to hang out that nite, which was a monday, and late and i couldn't hang out. i really want to get to know him more, i want to hang out this weeked. should i call him or let him call me. i don't know. help?
2006-07-28 10:11:58 · 55 answers · asked by tinyone 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think since you couldnt go out the other night, if you dont call him he might think you are avoiding him.. But if you call him, he will know that you are interested and willing to go out..
CALL HIM ALREADY..
2006-07-28 10:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by Hmm... 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
call him. It used to be considered too forward for a girl to call a guy, but if you want him to NOT FORGET YOU, then you need to call him and say, "Hey! I was just thinking about you, and wanted to let you know that I still want to hang out together. Would you be able to meet me this weekend?" Or just call him and visit with him. After a while, HE will probably be asking YOU to hang out.
2006-07-28 10:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to hang out with him you should call him because maybe after that night he dosent think you are interested in him and is afraid to call you in spite of rejection so give him a call and stop worring about it just let him know why you couldnt hang out with him and maybe he will understand.
2006-07-28 10:17:11 · answer #3 · answered by t_rohr1988 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer would be call him. I mean the guy is interested in you! If he wasnt he wouldnt have wanted to call to hang out sometime. He is prolly as nervous about this as you are. So why not go ahead and call him. Make the first move of calling him, guys love it =]
2006-07-28 10:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by Kimber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely call him because he probably got the message that you are not into him by not hanging out on monday.
2006-07-28 10:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him
2006-07-28 10:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by brandymcclain23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL Now, you know if a guy says to call then its a good thing. Make the call what could it hurt.
2006-07-28 10:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him because he might have taken you "sorry can't hang out tonight" as a rejection and dose like but does not want to be rejected
2006-07-28 10:14:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think the guy would've been offended cuz u couldn't hang out but i think u should give him a call to make other plans for when u are really comfortable :)
2006-07-28 10:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by kia.sushi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and Hi. See what he wants to talk about, or whats on his mind. From there you'll know if he's as interested as you may be. Don't stupid about it, If you would rather be pursued, then go slowly- if you don't mind being the Hunter- just go for it.
2006-07-28 10:16:35 · answer #10 · answered by ••Mott•• 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋