My brother is 15, and a real pest. He beats up on his younger sister and threatens her. He also gets in trouble in school, I really want the best for him, I don't live with him , they have no mother, she died when they were very young and my father is working two jobs to support them and his ex-wife and his 2 other kids. and he can talk to him and use the belt so many times. he's entering h.s. in august. I don't live at home, and am leaving for the military in september, I talk to him but I don't feel I'm getting thru, I feel it just gonna get worse with him, does anyone have any suggestions on how I can help him or get him to behave before he makes it worse for himself? bootcamp maybe. . . .
2006-07-28 10:05:52 · 21 answers · asked by nadege33064 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It seems like he is very troubled, with his mom dying and all i think you should get him a psychiatrist b4 sending him to boot camp. Maybe all he needs is a little love.
2006-07-28 10:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has more than enough transitions in his life to stress him out. It must be hard to lose a mother and have a father who is working so hard that he can't really be around. I'm not excusing his bad behavior, but suggesting that someone needs to acknowledge how all of this has impacted him too. Maybe he would benefit from a program with boys his age or even just time away from the younger ones so he doesn't have to feel so responsible. Maybe he does need bootcamp or needs to talk to someone before he hurts his little sister. Above all, he needs patience, support and understanding.
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2006-07-28 10:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think bootcamp will help a lot hun. If he still is doing that s h i t after bootcamp gonna have to take him to see juvi.
have a nice day hope he gets nicer
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2006-07-28 10:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just needs some love and attention before he gets to the point that he is completely unreachable.... then maybe bootcamp.... but he is most likely hurting inside because of loosing his mother, and having his dad so busy etc.... maybe get him counselling or get urself conselled on how to help him.
2006-07-28 10:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by crazydeb16 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it would depend on what kind of trouble he is getting into. If it is serious like criminal or drugs, then you should talk to your dad and get him to go to the school and talk to them so all of you could work together. If he is into serious stuff, you may need to put a scare into him like calling the police to help you out. If it is not serious trouble, then you should try talking to him repeatedly even after going into the military. His problems may not turn out to be as serious after he gets a little older.
2006-07-28 10:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by notsolucky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I echo devil queen sentiments. violence is the key...just kidding you can't make him behave...you can write to him while your gone and be a good influence on him that way, but you have to do what you have to do...even if you thought if WAS a good idea to enlist. I hope you don't die. So that you can come back and hang out with your kid brother and he can have a powerful woman in his life....But in the mean time it sounds like a better support system is in order, school counselling peer counselling, group counselling and new hobbies so he doesn't get into trouble in HS. .....and don't forget.
...."we can bomb the world to pieces, but we can't bomb in into peace."
2006-07-28 10:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by tharedhead ((debajo del ombú)) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Local police departments have great youth programs such as the Exporer program.These programs will teach kids 2 things ,respect and self respect.try it work for me!
2006-07-28 10:11:20 · answer #7 · answered by David E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually pple like that have anger issues. Really I think this kid needs counseling or a family intervention, it's pulling you guys apart!
2006-07-28 10:10:37 · answer #8 · answered by *only~wishful~thinking* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first f all ur younger bro needs a nice spanking ! send him off to boot camp for like the next 3 years f his life n hell knw wht its like to beat up his sis.....!!!! lady u shldnt b askin us a question like ask him to behave!!!!!!! say how do i get my bro back into control!!!
2006-07-28 10:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try scaring him. Get him put in jail for a night. Some people do that so that they see what its like and change
2006-07-28 10:09:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋