what i mean is there are so many male players out there what are the signs, clues, what do you do in this case? what do women look for? when a man either approaches you in a club or wherever how you can tell whether or not he plays women or has one on the side you don't know about or trying to go after your best fiend or an aquaintance of yours
2006-07-28 09:46:57 · 16 answers · asked by sundaysundae2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's pretty easy.... if you take the time to really watch the guy.
If his eyes are straying....... and he gets distracted while talking or dancing with you...... he's probably a player.
Also.... if he is eye-ing your girlfriends... he may be measuring them up against you. That's a bad scenario for everyone involved.
Also... if he's moving too fast........ for instance...if he can't hold you, dance with you or be affectionate without have to have sex, than he's probably a player.
A guy who is really interested in you....... as a person (not a sexual partner) isn't going to push the sex thing. He will want to spend time with you.... to get to know you.... in other places besides the infamous bar scene.
And even if he fills these prerequisites.... he might still be a player.... who likes to play the "game" of dating.
So... be careful who you give your heart and body to.
Take your time. Always respect yourself. And if he's not the one...love yourself enough to walk away, 'cuz you're worth more than that, girlfriend!
2006-07-28 09:57:01 · answer #1 · answered by Primrose 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's a good player you won't know at all ! Girl there is no way to tell if a man is a player or not. I say just look for the obvious..... If your out with him and his phone is ringing off the hook, that would be a sign. Little things will let you know. When you meet the right man for you, you'll know !!!
2006-07-28 09:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by smorgan1124 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can fish a little by asking leading questions or comments. Say things like,... "Don't you just love kids?" or "That's the color I want for my wedding someday."
Don't go over board, but a couple of comments dropped at appropriate times can reveal all sorts of reactions. And once you have an instinct, don't look back. Run away.
2006-07-28 09:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could never tell unless you get to know that person because i thought that my boyfriend was the player type when we first met. Thats all i did was try and avoid him or not get too seriouse with him because how he acted i thought he was on games. Like : he had a certain attitude that showed he didnt give a care about any girl, like he flirted with me one minute and i acted like i didnt want him and he would act the same way like the kind of attitude where he could have any girl so why is he trying to get with someone who acts as if they dont want him. but he kept trying to get with me but still had signs like thats all he wanted to do is have sex. but once i got to know him them sigs went away slowly. so just get to know that person first. there are no signs to tell unless you know that person.
2006-07-28 09:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by Tbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is why you should wait to know the person before you have sex. If he is so obvious about looking at other women and has talked to you about alot of romantic adventures he has had in the past.
2006-07-28 09:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young man in club or similar atmosphere= player. Most young men are!!
2006-07-28 10:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he cannot get passed the root of your eyes. When he's not really talking and he's fumbling for words like a boy on the playground when you were in elementry school, that is when there is something there...that's how I found the love of my life and I am glad she saw that in me.
2006-07-28 09:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by deejay_resurrection 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no real way to tell unless you use the "playa" skills againgst him and trick him into telling you the ever so slick way that women do those things. o yeah and ,em are most honesst right after they...well ya kno they finish/....so yo can ask him flat out if it gets that far...
2006-07-28 09:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by luvins4me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hits on you at a club, and you are attracted to him, then he is probably a player. If he hits on you somewhere else, and you are attracated to him, he is probably a player.
2006-07-28 09:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by El Guapo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes you can tell .They give you the same vibe a rat would.No ggod and sneaky
2006-07-28 09:49:26 · answer #10 · answered by Frances 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋