All my relationships fail how can I heal from this? And what could it be?
2006-07-28 09:45:13 · 3 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you ever seen people who have been married 4, 5, 6 times? Well guess what the common denominator was in each of those marriages....
What I recommend you do, is take some time off from dating until you get yourself together. A relationship is not two incomplete people coming together to make a whole person. It is two whole people coming together to make a strong relationship. Seek counseling, I have no doubt that the failure of your relationships is a mixture of issues from your past coupled with getting involved with the guys that attract you right now (probably because you have issues in common).
2006-07-28 09:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by Christopher B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let me start by saying, I empathize with your pain and I'm sorry that you are hurting. However, healing is a process that is not going to happen over night. You need to spend some quality time with yourself before going into your next relationship. Yeah, this may sound a little weird, but believe me, its well worth it. Take some time to get to know yourself, find out what and who you are first.
My personal opinion is this.................as women, we often think that we need a significant other to make us happy, we fail to realize that happiness comes from within. Girl make yourself happy and then you can focus on a relationship. Let's face it, the only things that happen to us are the things that we allow to happen to us.
My mother taught me that I am a Goddess and any real man should see that, most guys we date aren't whats considered a real man. Not to mention the right man, maybe a mister right now, if you know what I mean.
Back to your question, healing will come in time, just use that time to get to know you..............................
2006-07-28 09:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by Monie D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok so christopher b's answer was really good but i just wanna say that i think most problems with relationships is that we have expectations and we shouldn't have any at all hence causing our disappointments...i think that u can find healing in the lord....everything happens for a reason....maybe he's making u stronger for u to be ready for the person who is truly meant for u
2006-07-28 09:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by Vee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋