Look, i don't care if he is green and blue, just why aren't guys interested in us. We are not all ghetto, just as others aren't trashy, wetbacks, or whatever racist terms there are. Just why can't I always find one and i mean past the one night stand. I am a chocolate woman, and i look like and have the bod shape of my avatar, yet i find it so difficult to find a man on my level who is interested. oh and i am med student, i have a double major in psych and pre-men, minor in spanish communications, and i am a avid lover of life and history. I come from an upper-middle class background too. So tell me the reason, the truth and don't sugar coated, on why finding a good man is darn hard?
2006-07-28 09:44:20 · 8 answers · asked by waterdragon88 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe these guys get intimidated by you. Especially if they're level of education stopped at High School. And/or they're career path isn't as prestigous as yours.
OR, and no offence intended, some of the women I know that are highly educated (lawyer, doctor, and business exec) have a tendancy to make guys feel inferior around them. I know it's intentional for the 2 of the 4 I know. The other 2, it seems like they do it subconsiously. Suffice to say, this is a big turn-off for guys.
My advice, don't come of as this highly educated med student, with a double major in psych and pre-med, minor in spanish communications, and an avid lover of life and history (are you getting my drift?). Humbleness is key for you. Nothing more appealing than meeting someone you know is smart and intelligent, but doesn't come across like they are "boasting about it". That's what some people might call being "down to earth". You know your smart, don't need to brag about it, or prove anything. You'll only come off as a smart alec.
You asked with no sugar coating on top. There you have it.
2006-07-28 10:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by JustAdude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well no sugarcoating from me - the truth is all women are looking for a good man some find them some dont. there is no sure fire way to find the perfect guy for you. It would help if you have a real picture because most men who are looking do not want a avatar to compare to. "Like nothing like the real thing baby". stay away from the one night stands by not being a one night stand. take your time looking and respect yourself enough to not fall for anyone without really knowing who they are for real. I wish you luck in your search.
2006-07-28 09:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it a good man your looking for or a professor .not saying one ant out there not to offend are you a picky person ? a guy could find you some what intimidating.
that might be why.
2006-07-28 10:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by K-SOLO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont kno what ur talking about. I love black women and im white. I would really like to have a black girlfriend i dont kno why.
2006-07-28 09:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not a clue.....maybe the brains you ahve intimidate......wouldn't bother me though....or maybe you ae just too picky, and those that would go out with you, you ignore
2006-07-28 09:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like to till you that all peoples when stud ed hard i think they have,t time for love so . you can get your love if you want!
2006-07-28 10:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by astsh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say it girl! i dunno why this is so. im black and puerto rican and i had my share of jerks too. but trust me you will find someone on your level. you have a great future and you are a very smart girl.
2006-07-28 09:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by Jmkisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
got a quarter i can borrow? My momma told me to call when i found the woman of my dreams!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-28 09:55:41 · answer #8 · answered by matt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋