Does it matter that i'm still a virgin?

Question

I'm 20 and im stilla virgin, does this bother guys?when is a good time to tell a guy that im dating?

Answer 1

nah, not really. Just do it when you're ready

Answer 2

Well I am not a guy but I think it would be sweet if I met a 20 year old guy who was a virgin. I'm sure a couple of my friends(in their 20s) are still virgins. A good guy would be fine with it. Make sure the guy knows before he decides he wants sex.

Answer 3

Obviously I'm not a guy so I'm not sure if I should be answering... It doesn't matter that you're a virgin but I don't think you need to tell him until it comes up. To be honest most guys will take it as some sort of challenge (to be the one to take ur virginity) so it's most likely to sidetrack your relationship up before you know how far you're gonna go with him if you bring it.

Answer 4

It's a wonderful thing that you're still a virgin. I think the best time to tell someone you're dating is when he hints that he wants to sleep with you. You know something along the lines of "let's go back to my place." Or just whenever things become serious. Because, it's not anyone's business unless you think there's a future with him.

Answer 5

Some, not all. Depending on the guy. If you feel uncomfortable with this topic, maybe you can tell him whenever you are ready to be open with it. You got to get to know him. That way you'll feel that you can trust him. If you feel like you can tell him, then go ahead. So who cares if your a virgin? It's cool. Good Luck!

Answer 6

Good for you. You obviously have enough self respect to prevent guys viewing you as no more than a sexual plaything. It's not a big deal at all. Do it when you feel the time is right with a special guy. Best wishes x

Answer 7

Would not bother me in the least.

Live by your own standards. There probably will be some guys out there that would whine about wanting an 'experienced' girl but they are the minority.

Just do it when you're ready. If he doesn;t understand, then he isn't good enough for you.

Answer 8

no it wudnt bother guys, they may find it nice if u decide to sleep with them that you are a virgin. babe, u shudnt even worry about it darling. u dont even have to tell the guy unless it feels rele right. i lost my virginity about 2 months ago and im only 16 and then my bf cheated on me so dont rush into anything. it isnt woth it. hope this helps. love ya bbe.xx

Answer 9

tell him with in the first week or so that way if you guys start talking and things esclate he knows not to expact anything because that just gets you in trouble. It's not bad at all I auctually give you props, I wish I was. Sex isn't anything special and you can't miss it if you've never had it. Save it as long as you can and if you feel its the right person then go for it, if not hold it!!

Answer 10

look there is no time limit on losing your virginity, its a precious thing you can only lose it once, and you should lose it to the right guy who you love, trust and feel completly comfortable with, men respect women more for being a virgin cause it shows that a woman has morals and respect for her body, and is not willing to give herself to any lad that comes along, im 18 and ive never done it im waiting for the write guy to come along, tell the guy your dating that your a virgin thats if you feel comfortable in telling him, trust me he'l respect you, no worries goodluck =) all the best

Answer 11

been married 10 years and live as a virgin........

Dont worry about it. Sex is used to sell things in the media. This I suggest contributes to the feeling that your being left out.