XXX give her a "suppose" senerio. Feel her out first. Then if she bits the bait, tell her. Otherwise I'd keep my mouth shut until I feel the right time arrises. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-28 09:45:32
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answered by asoldierswife 7
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I think it really depends on what kind of friendship you two have. Best friends can make excellent boy/girlfriends because you have similar interests, and already know what eachother likes. I have some female friends that I know it wouldn't work with though because our lifestyles are far too different. Another of my best friends I was really attracted to, and we ended up dating for a little over a year. After we broke up, it kinda sucked, but after about 3 months or so we picked up as friends again. Not sure how common this is.
2006-07-28 16:46:29
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answered by Phoenix 3
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You're supposed to be friends with someone before you date them. Women always want to end up with someone that they can talk to, relate to... you two already have that.
You should weigh out the consequences. If you really want to go for it then just talk to her about it first. Tell her you think there might be something there and just ask her how she feels about it.
At least if you're just putting it out there on the table then she has the option to decide and she won't feel bad if you are talking about it openly. You're being honest about it and in return she'll feel comfortable enough to give you an honest answer. If the answer is no.. I bet she'll still be comfortable enough to be your best friend.
But really weigh out the consequences to your actions. She might like you too. At the same time it might not work. Just ask yourself if its something you're going to regret if you don't do it.
2006-07-28 16:58:16
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answered by Allie5277 2
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I'm going through the same thing. You have to decide whether risking a relationship with her is worth the everlasting effects it will have on your friendship. Don't tell her unless you think she likes you too. If you go out with her or even tell her you like her things will be awkward. If you really feel that you guys could work out go for it.
2006-07-28 16:48:20
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answered by grace 2
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I'm getting up there in age (29) and one thing I wish I did more of
in my youth days was put it out there when I liked someone in like
more than just a friend kind of way. There are girls from work and my school days I can still remember that I liked a lot but never put it there to see what would happen.
Being that she is your best friend, you're going to have to try to move it to the next level in a real suave kind of way but be ready for rejection if you. Go to the movies and whisper in her ear what
you feel for her.
2006-07-28 16:58:27
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answered by Kris 3
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It would really depend on if the feeling is mutual, and how mature of a relationship they two of you could have. If you think you are going to butt heads and have conflict, I wouldn't get invovled. If your relationship doesn't work out, do you think it would be possible to go back to being friends? I am in a similar situation, but my friend is a new friend and I have had a thing for her since day one, so I am willing to take the risk. It just depends on if you are willing to risk it and give it a try. Best of luck to you!
2006-07-28 16:49:57
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answered by E 2
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i think you should what is in your heart. actually when 2 friends that have known each other for a long time get together, it usually works out. atleast with my friends it has. maybe you should ask her if she would ever go out with a guy friend that she has known for a while. kind of bring up the subject without letting her know it's you that wants to be with her. and if it doesn't work out you will always have that friendship. I THINK YOU SHOULD GO FOR IT!!!!
2006-07-28 16:47:20
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answered by bbygrl181 1
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Tell your friend now. If it works out, great! If not, you really havn't lost anything. There's no reason the friendship can't continue. Just don't be a stalker if she says she's not interrested.
That way, you won't be stuck wondering "what if" for eternity.
2006-07-28 16:47:14
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answered by Privratnik 5
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Tell her how you feel about her. If you respect your friendship with her, you will be honest. Maybe ask her if she would like to go out with you sometime. If she says yes, tell her if it doesn't work out, you would still like to remain friends with her. Hope this helps, and good luck to ya!
2006-07-28 16:49:33
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answered by banana_splitt00 3
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I dont think you should tell her, it could wreak your friendship if you guys went out and broke up. I dont think you should tell her maybe you should just find al girl who you are not so close with.
2006-07-28 16:45:56
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answered by Anonymous
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