long distance love affair
2006-07-28 09:27:21 · 11 answers · asked by ACE IN THE HOLE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dnt think it wud work cus uv gta trust each ova an that will b hard cus u live so far apart u dnt no wot the ova person is up2 :s sounds like bad news 2 me but worth a try =)jus cus u sound lyk u luv her which is sweet so go 4 it =)
2006-07-28 09:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by ♥abi♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance should never be an issue, because it can be remedied. By one or the other of you moving. But you need to make sure that the two of you have met and it is the same in person, that way the move is worthwhile. You shouldn't tie yourself to one area for life. Be willing to live a little and experience new things.
2006-07-28 09:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was real love, distance shouldn't be an issue, as if you trully love someone you would make it work regardless of anything.
are you sure that is reason she could never love you? sorry if sound mean, but love knows not of age, time, space etc.... so if she really felt for something for you distance wouldnt be a problem, maybe there is some other issue and she is letting you down gently?
talk about it with her, not us and if you think it will work go for it, if not try and move on
good luck :)
2006-07-28 10:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by sinnedfairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication and trust is essential to keeping a long-distance relationship, just as it is in a normal relationship.
You will have to have absolute faith and trust in your partner and them you.
And as a means of communication, make all of the following a regular habit:
-Letters (They are more personal and have more substance than an e-mail, so don't just skip this one. I think maybe...once a month?)
-Telephone calls (Probably every other day or so...at least twice a week.)
-E-mail (I suggest twice a day. One in the morning discussing what your days plans are and one in the evening explaining how your day went. This keeps each other connected on your day-to-day activities, which is important.)
-Text messaging (On the go and up to date.)
-Instant messaging (A good rule of thumb is to do this as often as you call, on the days you don't.)
-Sending gifts (Don't focus too much on this one, though, if you know what I mean.)
-Shared online activities (Multiplayer online games, music, news articles, etc.)
-Shared offline activities (Listening to the same music, watching the same movie, etc.)
You have to remain a constant in each others lives, stay actively connected with each other.
What's meant to be will always find a way. There is no distance between two hearts in love. And besides, absence makes the heart grow fonder. Take care!
2006-07-28 09:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by flod_prfekshun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
though miles may lay between u, you`re never far apart, for love doesnt count the miles, its measured by the heart
Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle rather a great reminder of just how strong true love can be
2006-07-28 09:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by Your best friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was true love distance wouldn't be a problem just a difficulty that the two of you would overcome together
2006-07-28 09:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a long distant love, but for me it didn't workout even though it lasted over a year. I am the touchy feely type and I need my man beside me when I get lonely. So, in my opinion, unless its true love, DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-28 09:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
log off the internet, go to the local strip club and get this BS out of your system
2006-07-28 09:38:20 · answer #8 · answered by taterhog mung-flower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Train stations are ok try it ,move house,get her to move house,meet in the middle,don't give up,go for it
2006-07-28 09:32:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like one of you needs to move
2006-07-28 09:30:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋