We always go,but I cannot face him just yet. Do you think anyone will notice?
2006-07-28 09:10:16 · 12 answers · asked by grandefrapnowhip 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
not if you come up with a good excuse but why dont you just go and pretend nothing happened?
2006-07-28 09:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by yaaks1 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
It took me a minute to figure out that FIL was father-in-law. I do hope this is a joke but I don't think so. This is absolutely sick and disgusting! Not only should you not go to Sunday dinner, I think that you should leave the country. Do you have any sense of decency?
2006-07-28 09:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is one thing I will absolutely guarantee: Your husband will find out sooner or later. You had better make it sooner so there are no (or at least less) kids involved to see thier father crushed that way. If you have any love at all for him, suck it up and tell him, he absolutely deserves to know who he is married to. You must realize that he is living his life as if you were one kind of person, and you are the other kind. This is his life, and yours, you must not ruin it any more by dragging it out. DO THE RIGHT THING, AND DO IT TODAY. Don't wait until 'the right time,' the only right time is now.
2006-07-28 09:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by 1,1,2,3,3,4, 5,5,6,6,6, 8,8,8,10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time for you to WISE UP!! Yes, I answered your last question, but not the way you would have wanted it to be answered. I could just imagine why you can't face him. Hopefully, for your husband's sake, you won't be able to face him for the rest of your life. You need counselling.. No one in their right mind would have done what you did!!! As far as your father-in-law, my God, he's as bad as you.
YES....they'd notice that something is wrong! If you're there every Sunday, and suddenly you don't show up, what else do you think they'd think? Please....tell me you're not as dumb as you appear to be!!
2006-07-28 09:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need Jesus... that and lots of prayer. I will pray for you, if you can not face him then don't. If you husband doesn't know, don't lie to him... telling him would most likely kill your relationship with him, and his relationship with his father... that's a decision you will have to make. You are an adult.. you should be responsible, and your father-in-law should definitely know better then to have sex with his son's wife! You need to pray for guidance and forgiveness. God bless you!
2006-07-28 09:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by Girl 4 God 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how many times are you going to bring up that you slept with your father in law? whats wrong with you? why would you go and do that to a family?
you might find it funny but, your going to cause your husband and his dad to fight with each other and turn their backs on each other...that's not counting everyone else in the family that's going to get hurt over this
little girl, you might be having fun with this...but, blood is thicker than water and sooner or later this is all going to blow over...and everyone is going to agree....you're easy and trashy.....grow up and stop playing with ppls minds!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-28 09:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by Praise the Lord 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. thats y u tell ur husband before sunday
2006-07-28 09:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by nmahlburg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your father in law probably would.
Are you dumb or something?
2006-07-28 09:13:33 · answer #8 · answered by sethle99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats disgusting...and of course they'll notice
2006-07-28 09:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got trouble, either way, if u go or stay
2006-07-28 09:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by ordinary jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋