who would u choose? Honestly!!!?

Question

i am in a dillema! i need help.
i am have to choose between two guys, and i don't know which one of them to take.
the first guy is named Ben. okay Ben is a nice guy, well so is the other guy, Tonto.
but here is what they differ in, Ben is easy to talk about anything, he makes me feel warm and happy and he always makes me laugh. But now the problem with him is that he is the worst kisser on the planet and i don't really have strong feelings for him.
But on the other hand, Tonto is not that much of a talking person, nor does he laugh a lot, and sometimes i feel i don't know him! But boy his kisses make me feel like........ OHHH i don't know, he is just good at kissing! And the truth is i am more attracted to Tonto than Ben! who is the right choice! is it the one i love the most or the one who makes me happyat most times?

Answer 1

I think what you feel with Tonto is more to lust...hehehe...

Well...a mix of both of them will be so nice right? bad that we can't have both at the same time...but if i were you...I think I'll be with the guy who can make me happy most times...someone I can share my days with, someone that can be friends with me, understand me the most...if he happens to be a bad kisser...you can tell him jokingly...honey...I've read some articles about kissing...would you like to practise these technic so we can have great kisses all the time? then you tell him how would you like him to kiss you...

as time goes by...physical attraction will go down and the conversation skills will rise...

But again...just follow your heart!

Answer 2

If you can not choose, then you probably need to move on a find someone who is the total package. Sounds to me like, you are mixed up about Ben. You don't really love him or you wouldn't be wanting someone else. And as far as Tonto, you can not go through life with a guy because he can kiss you. There is more to life than sexual arousement. So take the smart way out and find someone more suited to you than either person/

Answer 3

I would say Ben. From what you have described a stronger realationship will grow out of someone who talks about stuff. Tonto seems like he may be real good at kissing because he has done it so much...hint hint. I would say that Ben has more in store for you and that you will build a closer relationship to him than you would with Tonto which just has a superficial attraction.

Answer 4

Neither, Tonto sounds like he will be great in bed but a lousy partner and will just cause a lot of pain down the road and not really give you what you want, and Ben sounds like he would make a better friend. So forget Tonto (I know it will be hard), make Ben your friend, and find someone who turns you on AND makes you laugh :)

Answer 5

Well Mr. Ben, Seems to be what you and every womans looking for.. The way you talk he makes you real happy except for the kissing....My wife tought me the way she wanted to be kissed, SO? Why cant you teach him..I beleive that in the long run you'll enjoy your life ahole lot better with Ben..Everything you said , is just how wonderfull Ben is. Tonto only has the kiss.. Your happest with Ben, so now just MOLD him into the rest..Your friend from Tennessee...ROB

Answer 6

i would say that u choose the guy that u r in love more and i think that if i was u i would choose the guy that u r attracted to more if u say Tonto is the one then go for him. yea maybe hes not really talking person but just talk to him about anything and make him laugh and when u guys get to know each other more open up more and he will to.

Answer 7

IF u love TOnto, then chose him, but don't just chose him because he's a 'good kisser'!! Chose the 1 that u have true feelings toward and he has for u. '2 clap, u need 2 hands' so for ur love life to be succesful, u need both sides to love each other.

Answer 8

I'd go for Tonto- he's probably related to Sitting Bull and you may be able to get a take of the casino money, which is great. My ex wife, Spreading Eagle, was 100% Seneca Indian and I'm rich! I have a luxury condo that overlooks a chemical plant and my life couldn't be better.

Answer 9

I think you just answered your own question: "And the truth is i am more attracted to Tonto than Ben!"

Answer 10

if you want a lasting relationship go with the talker.... Ben... you can teach him how you like to be kissed..


if you just want a fling go with Tonto....



with Ben you will have a solid foundation for your relationship because you have open lines for communication. relationships thrive on honest, open communication.