what do you think of it,i am,i dont share partners,i have been in a hetrosexual relationship for years,but i like girls,and always have,although i really just like to play,i wouldnt want them borrowing my shoes or anything!!!
2006-07-28 09:00:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my partner thinks its disgusting,i just admire womens strength and bodies,id never cheat,or share,im not into that.
2006-07-28 09:05:39 · update #1
Good grief! There is nothing wrong with being bi-sexual. I'm a bloke and my partner is bi - I've suggested that if she wants to indulge with another woman, she tells me and I will disappear for a week and drink beer. I do not feel that my partner's bi-sexuality is a threat to me, because I know she loves me above all others and will always be there for me. So, if she wishes to experiment with other forms of sexuality, it is fine by me.
If your partner really loves you, and is not hung up with social or religious connotations apropos sex, and if you can present your bi-sexuality as not being a threat, I fail to see where there is a problem. Or, putting it another way, sex play is fun, but the sex that comes with love for one's partner is real love. If you both can diffentiate between fun and love, then you have a chance of total fulfilment.
2006-07-28 09:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was another post earlier from someone that made a very good point. That there are plenty of women that are bi-curious or straightish or somewhere in between.
I'm blatantly stealing what she said, MC Rom is her ID on Yahoo! Answers.
If you are just as likely to pursue a full blown relationship with a woman as you are with a guy, then yes, you are classically bisexual.
otherwise you are just a little kinky and like to play with them. Nothing at all wrong with that, and from My own point of view is always a good thing.
Enjoy yourself, play safe, and let your partner know about it. He'll likely love you for it.
2006-07-28 09:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of girls feel this way. Not many admit it (unless they are trying to turn on a male friend or attract a lady for fun!)
It's not wrong to feel like this but you are in a relationship. Respect your partner, don't go and sleep with anyone else whilst you are with him. It doesn't matter if they are male of female, it's still cheating and it's still wrong. How would you feel if your boyfriend went and slept with a man?
If you want to play around finish your relationship and go and have your fun. If you want to be in a relationship you owe it to yourself and him to commit yourself to the relationship.
2006-07-28 09:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with being bi-sexual, despite what these fascists say (fascists i mean well meaning Christians). Normal people wont have a problem but plenty will because it means your going against Gods word or some other rubbish the church have made up. You cant force yourself to not be bi, so just carry on with it.
2006-07-28 09:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by chris_p26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be like saying " I like children surely it's not wrong" Just because you like it does not make it right! That is why we have laws and morals. Lots of people like lots of things that does not make it right either. Some people like tortour and murder trust me it's wrong. The real question is where do we draw the line of right and wrong. The line has been drawn already and the majority of the people agree with it. Sometimes it sucks for the rest but you already knew that.
2006-07-28 10:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by Illtellyouwhatswrongwiththatdude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it's not "wrong", and if you really thought so you wouldn't have asked the question. Just be true to yourself, and if the boyfriend doesn't like it, get another boyfriend. Or girlfriend. Or both.
PS: The line about the shoes was great.
2006-07-28 09:06:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The terms wrong and right are relative to your upbringing and perspective. I, nor anyone else can say what is right for you. The only thing that you need to be concerned with, is your truth. To betray yourself in order to not betray another, is betrayal not the less. It is the highest betrayal. You need to be true to yourself no matter what.
2006-07-28 15:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by Indigo7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've just asked a similar question. i'm in a stable hetero relationship but am very bi-curious and i think that if it's something that turns you on then give it a go.i doubt very much that i'd take it further than experimentation (who wants to lend their shoes??!) and if you can find someone that you trust (and won't boil your family pets) to give it a go with, then why the hell not. good luck!
2006-07-28 09:07:28 · answer #8 · answered by emma a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have been attracted to both male and female counterparts for centuries, of course it's fine. I defy anyone to tell you different, they would be truly ignoarant to not face facts. There is more to life then one secular way of tihnking about relationships.
2006-07-28 09:03:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, the thought grosses me out
but i don't believe it's wrong. people have a right to have different sexual orientations, and i could care less what they do in private.
just so long as i don't date any bisexuals, i could honestly care less. sorry, but i would have trouble dating a bi; i wouldn't want female competition.
2006-07-28 09:09:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋