My fiance has been with alot of woman, well I think it's alot. He said he doesn't even really know how many but he would guess about 75. He was stationed in Germany while in the army about ten years ago, thats when he was with most of them. I know it was a long time ago and he didn't even know me then and I have been with a few myself but not nearly that many, but it still bothers me. Am I being stupid or is it normal for me to be bothered by it.
2006-07-28 08:48:22 · 13 answers · asked by girlfromflorida 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't have any disease s, he has been checked since then and has had healty kids since then also.
2006-07-28 09:10:58 · update #1
Thats the past, leave it there. If you cant deal with it, you need to leave...You can not change what happened, dwelling on it isnt going to fix it.
2006-07-28 09:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a not worth your time.
Even if you love him you will not be able to get over his other encounters. I understand your problem.
More than likely he has something Ajax can't get rid of and you probably have already slept with him.
He has either changed and is willing to settle down or he will continue to wonder.
Can you really take that chance?
If you are going to marry him (he is your fiance) you might as well accept the man he is and put the issue out of your mind.
2006-07-28 08:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Smith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i believe u guys should of been careful with all the std's going around.have u guys gotten checked? i think that is the first thing to do.after that if evrthing turns out well ur just gonna have to accept the fact that he has had other sexual partners.God bless and take care
2006-07-28 08:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by penelope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the adventure that they both are in entire contract, gained't have any regrets later down the line and that both companions continually have interaction in this act mutually and under no circumstances on my own. I under no circumstances did so at the same time as married and that i wanted to grant it a attempt yet my hubby ought to under no circumstances bypass for it.
2016-11-26 21:08:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It IS normal for you to be bothered by it, but as long as you no that that is all over now, and you can talk it out with him honestly than i think you dont need to be very worried anymmore. your decision though.
2006-07-28 08:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by Shag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you both visit a doctor to ensure it is healthy to have a sexual relationship with this man.
2006-07-28 08:52:46 · answer #6 · answered by flod_prfekshun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a guy and i was stationed in germany. i was number 69.
2006-07-28 08:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...I think you need to use "common sense" are u really interested in getting aids or some other std? if so be our guest..just dont pollute everyone else with it...
2006-07-28 08:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only is it OK, but it's required. Man Law.
2006-07-28 08:51:37 · answer #9 · answered by Perfect Specimen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is mandatory to have many sexual partners if you live in florida ---get wit it gurl
2006-07-28 08:53:18 · answer #10 · answered by iznit d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋