Went back to bf because he begged me to and promised to be faithful. But, before we got back he had purchased a house with another woman. It has been a year and he is in debt to the man he bought the house from. I recently learned that the woman he bought the house with has been over to the house. His reply is that he needs her to co sign on a lown to pay the other owner back. I have broken up with him, even tho he swears it was just a meeting to settle his debt. My question is....why would this woman agree to co sign on another loan if he has been faithful to me.....
2006-07-28 08:39:36 · 5 answers · asked by JJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, sounds too fishy to me. co-signing for a house is a major step. it's not like a helping pay for lunch. there's something going on and you don't want to be the third part of the triangle. forget about him. you sounds very bright, find someone else with less baggages.
2006-07-28 08:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK MA- IMA BE REALLLLLLY HONEST WITH YOU.
IM AN EXPERT. HE'S NOT FAITHFULL AT ALLLL
HE STILL FU$CKING THAT WOMAN. NO WOMAN IN THERE RIGHT MIND WILL SIGN FOR A MAN THAT STAYS WITH ANOTHER UNLESS HE GIVING HER SOME....
HE'S MAKING HER THINK YOUR A SIDE PIECE OR THAT HE USING YOU FOR SOMETHING. VICE VERSA.
THERE MIGHT HAVE BEEN A MEETING....OR TWO!!!
BUT I PROMISE YOU THEY ARE STILL GETTING IT IN.
YOU NEED TO DUMP HIM AND GET YOU A REAL MAN. THEN TAKE HIM AROUND YOUR EX LIKE "YEAH HE JUST HELPING ME SIGN FOR A NEW HOUSE" THEN SQUEEZE THAT A$$ AND KEEP IT MOVING....
DONT LET HIM TAKE YOU FOR A FOOL
2006-07-28 15:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by GrownNSexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she still has feeling for him and would still do anything for him. Maybe he is telling you the truth. It might not be him that likes her. That is a tough situation. But if there is nothing more, like proof, and if you do love him, things will work out. He should of talked to you about it first though, so if he didn't, he may be sneaky. Good luck.
2006-07-28 15:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by Susa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hasn't. He's been ridin' a relationship with her the whole time. If he hasn't been cheating, he's surely left his options open so he can.
Sorry, sounds like you may be number 2
2006-07-28 15:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by Mikey B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the house is half hers and she has to help pay for it.
2006-07-28 15:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋