2006-07-28 08:37:46 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well sometimes you don't but you just have to let everything unfold on it's own and eventually you will know weather to love him or dump him!
2006-07-28 08:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by Hotchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way!
Love is about taking the risk!
You can spend a long time with this guy, and finally, after some years of marriage find out he wasn't the one for you!
I think the best way to have a successful relationship is by being honest with each other (never pretend to be someone you're not), don't hide little things that bother you (cause they'll become big things someday), and don't be selfish... cause a relationship is about 2 people, not 1!
If you like each other just like you are, and you enjoy spending time together, you share the same dreams... I guess you're on the right way!
2006-07-28 15:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by Karin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...there is no strict "recipe" to know if this boy is the right for you or not. Only time can show you this. But if there is chemistry...if you like him..there is much common between you..and he's proved you that he does care about you, all is O.K. But if there is something strange about him; If he is acting unnaturally, be careful! He probably has something in his mind and just wants to reach it. Nothing more. Look him at his eyes and you'll find all you need. When my boyfriend makes me get very angry.. I look him at his bewitching green eyes ready to start arguing..But in a few seconds I forget all about the dispute and my only wish is to kiss him and to be as closer to him as possible :))) So, never underestimate the power of the eyes - they are a window to the soul of a person!
2006-07-28 16:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by ChillyღAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch lots of romantic movies (aka: chick flicks) and pick the senario you like best. when you meet someone who you feel you like as much as the ppl in the movie like each other, you've found someone who's right for you...
Okay, maybe that won't work, but now you have something to do on those saturday nights you don't have a date.
take a step back from the relationship and analyze it...ask your friends what they think...be happy with that person...ask on yahoo answers and get a better answer than this.
Hope I've been helpful.
2006-07-28 15:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by jantwo11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a list of 10 Must Have's (exercises, is kind) and 10 Can't stands (e.g. overweight, compulsive spender) and make sure they match up. You must have your own happy life and he is a part of it--he is not your happy life. He should support you taking dancing classes alone, going out once a week with friends, spending time with your family away from him.
If he tries to control you forget it.
Make him responsible for his own emotions. You don't make him feel sad or happy. That is his response and he owns it.
You both have a similar future in mind: school, children, church or not, closeness to family, work or stay home.
2006-07-28 15:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karin - finally, a woman who get's it.
She's got my vote for best answer.
One addition, I'd like to add. No expectations. The more you expect things, the more you will get disappointed if it doesn't work out. As Karin said, let things unfold as they may. It's all about enjoying the moment together, and getting to know each other first.
2006-07-28 15:54:41 · answer #6 · answered by JustAdude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When his actions are consistent. When he makes you laugh a the little things in life and most important after 3-4 months you realize that he likes you a little bit more than you like him.
2006-07-28 15:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by dwight p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should def have standards and you shouldnt bend them for no one no matter how fine they are you should go for what you are looking for. BUT you could pass up a really good guy if you dont pay attention, you just know when it feels right but you also know when your choosing to be blind. dont look let him come to you
2006-07-28 15:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by Capricorn82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time, and only TIME, will tell. you have to spend time with a person to find out if yu like them or not
2006-07-28 15:41:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a guess
2006-07-28 15:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by Jon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋