2006-07-28 07:55:47 · 27 answers · asked by LOVE TO BE LOVED 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does your current boyfriend do anything to encourage his ex? do they have children together? this is difficult because although neither of you want the hassle, there's always some sickos who just don't want to hear the message. all you can do is both of you blank her till she gets bored and goes away. if she calls , hang up. pass her by in the street and don't get drawn into an argument with her. she'll relish the attention if you do. just ignore the bore and eventually she'll probably go away. best of luck
2006-07-28 07:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by stingub40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first, why is he your "Ex" in the first place? And is HIS ex an "Ex" because he dumped her to try and get back with you?
Either way, I think it would probably be best for you to move on. This will save you from all the grief you'll probably run into.
Most of the time, when people move backwards, they end up regretting it.
2006-07-28 08:05:10 · answer #2 · answered by JustAdude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear let me say that if he has the last word. He should be telling that ex to back up and let him continue on with his life. Unless he is trying to hold on to her on the side is when he will continue to allow her close and in his life. Other then that it should not be hard for him to tell her to move on, if he is as serious about you.
We all only have one life to live , you better live it your way and keep your sister, niece and nephew close to your heart and lets not forget about your son. Let nothing come in between that ! Love yourself enough to let him go, and not be played like a fool.
2006-07-28 08:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by ressie re 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how many ex's does he have, you and her, are there any more? Why wuld you be interested in a person who has already failed twice. If you want to give him a little bit, I would say that would be ok, but to take him back into your life, I am not sure if that is such a good idea.
2006-07-28 08:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went though this with my hubby x high school girl friend me and my hubby before we got married she show up out side my house this was ween i was 8 months pregnant and talk crap who she was going to kick my *** long story short buy the time i had my kid she had moved away i say if u want to work it out with ur boyfriend and u know there over tell her to go f*** her self leave u to alone u want to be happy together and she need to get and life and stay out u two life
girl if there one thing i have learned no one wants anyone happy and long as u let them get the better of u they well keep on
good luck
2006-07-28 08:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by mommy72403 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to tell his ex to leave him alone if he wants to be with you. If he doesn't do this then maybe he is unsure of things and you need to discuss this situation.
2006-07-28 08:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all he is your ex for a reason. do you now have a change of heart and want him back, if you do you better get his ex situation straightend out for good or you will have a whole lot of problems down the line in your relationship
2006-07-28 08:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first think about why he is your ex, why did you break up. If he broke up with you what is his real reason for wanting you back, if you broke up with him. Ask yourself why you want him back. And then his ex bugging him, why is she bugging him, when did they break up? If he has a problem with it he has to be the one to do something about it. Not you. Think to yourself would you really want to be put through drama, for nothing.
2006-07-28 08:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by sexygothbaby1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront the girl!!!! together with your guy.. you guys have to show her that she has to move on.. or something close to that..
are you sure your ex really loves you??? he might just be confused... or doesnt know what he really wants, if thats the case.. then i dont think its worth getting back with ur ex...=(
ryt?
2006-07-28 08:01:13 · answer #9 · answered by theresa b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this is a broken record with him. He is going on the same cycle. Get out of it by telling him your getting off of his roller coaster ride.
2006-07-28 08:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋