does anyone think i'm just being silly and that i should phone her, or am i right to think its dodgy?

Question

she said she would never do something, and then later she said she would

she said she wasn't married, but i saw one of her yahoo, question, purely by chance, it said she has a bad temper, and that she had thrown her husbands brand new laptop at him, i bought her a laptop about 1 week before

i just received and email, from her sister husband, but he has same last name has her, now i know men can take there wife's last name, so it could be, but he said she had moved out of there house, but she told me she owns her own house.

he also said that a lot of her yahoo accounts have been closed down, and that why i haven't been able to contact her, but i seen her posting questions on yahoo still

i leant her some money, and she was meant to meet me to pay it back, i did hear from her for about 4 days b4 the meet, so i assumed she was not able to make it, and I've not heard anything from her until this email form her brother-in-law

and that was only after i sent and email saying i want my money back, and I'll do anything to get it back.

in the email i got a new mobile number, for her, so my question is does anyone think I'm just being silly and paranoid and that i should phone her, or am i right to think its all abit fishy?

Answer 1

well..what u said gives an impression that there is something fishy...but u know what...there is avery famous part of quran(iam muslim) says in which means that u should'nt take what peoples say for granted until u r very very sure...that is the same..i think u should call her and go on with ur relationship with her(either friendship or dating) until she does something that makes u very sure of that...be aware that at the internet people can write any names they like so this man who said that he is her brother in law might just be playing atrick on u for any reason...u must wait until her personality truly appears to u..ooh about her marriage...maybe she just wanted to forget all about that

Answer 2

Why are you giving her money? She is not your wife or fiancee she is not even your friend? Do you only chat toher online? Anyone can be anything to anybody online
Its clear you dont even know this person, you are not going to get your money back, ask for it and watch the abuse come pouring in.
iF I were you i would cut my losses, why would you buy a laptop for someone, go do something for your mom im sure she deserves better.
Her and her husband are probably trying to play you. Do not allow
anymore stuff to happen
Remember from now on..PEOPLE ONLY TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU LET THEM

Answer 3

that IS a bit fishy, call her definitely! Question her a lot, and make things straight with her. You are not the kind of person with whom anybody can play games, aren't you?

Answer 4

Be very careful. Sounds like a scammer to me preying on nice guys. You're probably not the only one either that she's doing this too.I hope you get your money back but I don't see it happening.

Answer 5

does sound rater fishy best 2 b open and hounest and ask her... she should understand but teh longer u keep it 2 ya self teh worse the feelin will get

Answer 6

i think this is a rediculous question and the answer seems obvious.. It seriously sounds to me like she's fishy. I wouldn't date her.

Answer 7

okay first of all i think shes playin you. second of all that is fishy, but if u want ur money back call.

Answer 8

It is a bit fishy. I think she is playing you dude.

Answer 9

you've been played by a liar. cut your losses now. we are not all heartless users but have a look at why you attracted one.

Answer 10

RUN! RUN! Run and don't look back! Forget the money, you'll never see it again and if you're fortunate, you won't see her either.