how can i tell her i love her but not really say i love you?
ok so i havent really met this girl in person yet but we plan on it like we talk on the phone and computer and she says she likes me and i say i like her, and her friends say she likes me but what should i say, i dont wanna say i love you yet so how could i possibly hint to that without saying it?
2006-07-28 07:47:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Flowers dude.. A sweet decently cheap gesture. Oh and be kind and understanding and a good listener..
2006-07-28 07:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell her that you love her without pronouncing it. There are several gestures (flowers, some not so expensive but sentimental presents) you could do to her but they can't replace the power of the three magic words "I LOVE YOU". But if you don't love her, don't say it because later on, you will feel sorry about that. I had such an experience. It's awful. Just be honest to her. If you aren't in love with her yet, don't say it. But make her feel special. And show her that you care about her and want to be with her :) Good Luck!
2006-07-28 15:05:14 · answer #2 · answered by ChillyღAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't force it!! If you say anything like that to her, it would probably scare her off. With good reason, too. You are not in love with her. You've never even met her in person. You are excited and flattered and curious. Just be yourself. Women give hints when they want you to say/do something. I'd suggest just paying attention to her and learning her idiosyncracies. Then, when the time is right, you'll just know when to tell her.
2006-07-28 15:01:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youre not sure about how much you really like her, dont just jump in and say you love her. girls dont want to hear something that isnt true. yes you like her, but do you LOVE her? if you dont know yet just say what you have been saying. throw in an i miss you and an i wish you were here and you should be okay until you really feel love in there.
2006-07-28 14:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ye always best 2 let girls say they love u 1st.... jst drop hints and tel her how much she meens 2 u..
then hopefully she probly say the same bck... and mayb i love u after dat...
a gd romtaic gesture i did (bt get loads of top up) is 2 txt her throught the whole day sayin how much u miss her and a reson why u miss her.. (IE i miss u so much, jst the way, u always smille) worked relli well as she had no credit either which mean't her inbox was filled wid em :)
2006-07-28 14:54:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say "I Love You" or any close approximation of it - if you haven't met yet - you can't possibly be in love. Say some nice creative form of "Glad to meet you"
2006-07-28 14:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to say "I love you" if you feel that it isn't time yet. Meet her, get to know her a little bit more, when you feel it is right, then tell her that you do love her.
2006-07-28 14:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by kznight1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can't say i love you without saying it :P buut u can do something really really special and she will get the picture that you think she is something speacial for you and thats close enough. And what you do, you know her do something she will like. Good luck dude
2006-07-28 15:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by Peps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and spend time with her. show her that u really care by paying attention to her and being there when she needs you. u don't need to say u love her just yet. actions speak louder than words.
2006-07-28 14:54:09 · answer #9 · answered by nycangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could send a teddy gram. Which is sending a teddy bear through the mail that appeals to an subject she likes or flowers.
2006-07-28 14:58:45 · answer #10 · answered by pinkgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋