was just curious what it is for some girls/women that get them goin........
2006-07-28 07:41:53 · 31 answers · asked by nic3cova 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to be honest..its a hot body n' face...all of my friends are attracted to hot guys (including myself)..if the guy isn't god looking (according to the girl's taste(s)..) there is a chance where she might just think of you asa friend..HOWEVER....personality is the second most important thing...so if your not a looker..might want to work on that personality and be open...share intrests...and above all..LISTEN to her!...hope this is good enough...take care :)
2006-07-28 07:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I may be an exception to the other responses, but I will first notice a man's looks. Tall, dark, handsome with hair will catch my eye. Mature too. If he's fit, I'm still looking. Then I watch how he moves, how he carries himself, and how other people react to him, and how he treats other people; confidence without arrogance is important. Sullen and surly doesn't work for me; I want to see a smile. I'll notice his hands; they're important to me; lips and chin. Once I've watched, if he approaches, then the next and one of the most important things is scent -even the absence of it- pheremones. My nose will make the decision as to whether or not there's an attraction. And if he's stupid, well, then I'm pretty much done! If something vulgar comes out of his mouth, I won't even respond, I'll just walk away. The rest is all the regular getting-to-know you stuff...but I haven't done this for years. I knew my partner when I was married (not involved with him then) for 12 years, and I already knew about him and what I thought was interesting and attractive...and all of those things applied.
2006-07-28 14:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me the main things are kindness, a sense of humor and maturity. Looks are secondary but my own personal likes on that subject would be a shaved or bald head, strong arms and hands and a very clean, white and straight smile. Take care and I hope you have an amazing day!
2006-07-28 14:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by silent.peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different things really. If i am in a lovin kinda mood its the face and the way he touches me. If i am in a freaky mood which is most of the time its everything. I like the muscles the sweat the veins pulsing the smell of his cologne ...... ya like i said everything. It just depends on what she is attracted to.
2006-07-28 14:49:03 · answer #4 · answered by Red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality. Girls love musicians and artistic men.
2006-07-28 14:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i get going first off by good convorsation. Not necessarily intelligence but wit and humor and personality. I get soooo going by brown and black guys....my mind just wanders which makes me get even more going and if the guys interested too than that gets me going even more and if we are dating and hes curteous and romantic but is still himself and can keep it real than i'll keep going on and on and on
2006-07-28 14:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. don't be a phony. don't be like hey baby you wanna go habe sex when you have just met her. get to know her. take her some where romantic. don't be cheap. buy her roses or something. you don't have to always buy a gift unless you want to but flowers are always nice.
2006-07-28 14:50:54 · answer #7 · answered by princess_anne_2009 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like it when guys are nice to me, and they look good but don't try too hard. Just being a gentleman
2006-07-28 14:46:28 · answer #8 · answered by Fashionvista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A nice smile, athletic bod, good attitude
2006-07-28 14:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by PaganPoetess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been told many women that it is my self confidence with minimal arrogance that drew them in.
2006-07-28 14:47:23 · answer #10 · answered by Tyler Durdin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋