What dog should we compromise on?

Question

My boyfriend and I want to get a dog, but we differ in breed preference. I have a toy poodle that is 4 years old. I am partial to smaller dogs and breeds that don't shed. He wants a lab.
Any suggestions for a compromise? And don't say labradoodle because he already said that was out of the question.

Answer 1

Consider adopting a retired racing greyhound. They are a single-coat breed and will shed (a little) seasonally but are nothing compared to labs. Also their skin is not very oily so they don't have a strong 'dog' smell. They are larger than you like but they are very quiet, easy going dogs who won't be jumping on you/in your way all the time.

http://www.greyhoundpets.org

Answer 2

Amivins has a great idea, IMHO. A mid-sized mutt (maybe with some terrier in him?) might be just the ticket.

You may want to research a Schnauzer (Mini or Standard). While they do require maintenance for their coats, they don't shed like the typical dog will (and Labs shed. OOh boy do they shed...).

Standards are a little bit bigger, if your BF is looking for something with a little more size. The Minis are about 20 lbs.

Be sure to read up on them first, though, because their temperaments differ between the two breeds (the Minis are a lot more easygoing), they can both be stubborn, and because they were bred to be guard dogs, they can be VERY barky.

But I love our Minis.

Answer 3

A good compromise would be a standard poodle. You already know the benefits of poodles, so I would think a larger version of what you have would work.

I guess you need to find out (or maybe you already know and did not share) why he wants a lab. Is it just the large breed, or are there qualities of labs that he likes. Then based on what he says, look for breeds with those qualities.

And please, look first at your local animal shelter for a dog. I am sure there are several in your area, and they are full of dogs looking for loving homes.

Answer 4

I have a bulldog and part of the reason I got her was because I wanted a smaller dog but not one that would seem too "feminine". Other small dogs with big personalities are Jack Russel Terriers, French Bulldogs, Pugs (maybe a stretch) Welsh Corgis. There are a lot of options out there. Or, go to the humane society and just find a dog the size you want, regardless of breed.

Answer 5

You may not be able to reach a compromise. You want a small and non-shedding animal because you want something that simulates a dog but isn't quite a dog. He wants a large playful animal with lots of hair that simulates a dog with all the negatives (eats, poops, sheds, takes up space) without any of the good qualities of intelligence, usefulness, etc. Why not put aside your dog expectations for awhile and visit an animal shelter together. You may be able to interact with different kinds of dogs and put together a new list of attributes you would like to see in a dog you could be happy with. Maybe a German shorthair would be good.

Answer 6

Have you given any thought to a Cocker Spaniel? They are a smallish dog with great temperament.They are also a hunting/sport breed which means they have some attributes of a lab.They do not shed,they do not smell,and they need grooming about 4-5 times a year. They are a wonderful friend to anyone and they are extremely loyal.My wife and I have a five year old we rescued from Chattanooga.We adopted our first cocker from someone who could no longer keep it.They will give you enormous pleasure and unconditional love.They are very intelligent,as well.They can be housebroken and trained quite easily.I can guarantee you will not be disappointed.Best of luck and happiness on your new addition!!

Answer 7

Many smaller dogs can be on the nastier side while more larger breeds tend to be a bit friendly. Labs and retrievers are bother really great dogs, they shed but it's usually not to bad. A boxer or a german shepard/beagle mix can be very good too. As long as you keep up with grooming the shedding usually isn't too bad and they are great dogs.

Answer 8

Well why not both? The small poodle could be indoors. The larger dog can be out in the yard and you can both walk and play with your dogs. Do things together. Even when you two need time apart your own dog can keep you company. But both of you have to share the responsibility for the well being of both dogs even if they're not your favorite.

Answer 9

Without knowing where you live...ie: apartment, house, with or without a yard it's hard to say.

Bigger dogs deserve a yard to stretchout in!

If you have the room, a retired grey hound makes a wonderful pet.

If you don't have the room, go for a mid-sized dog.

If your in an apartment and/or are gone for long hours...stay away from terriers, beagles, or cattle dogs. They suffer when left alone, they really need lots of attention, their instincts are to work, herd, and be active all day.

Don't fight their natural instincts...find a breed that fits your lifestyle, and if at all possible...get one from the pound. Mixed breeds often make the most excellent pets.

Answer 10

CONSIDER THESE THINGS:

Is this dog to have a job or anykind, like watch dog, guard dog, waking you up in the morning, etc?

Is this dog to live entirely indoors, or is it to be an in and out dog?

Do you intent it to learn tricks and generally be cute to amuse your friends and family?

Larger dogs require more food than smaller dogs - Is money an object?

If you ever cease to be a couple - who gets the dog? If you continue as a couple - who walks the dog, exercises the dog, gives the dog a bath, and cleans up after the dog?

Answer these questions - and some breeds will eliminate themselves; you'll be down to a few obvious choices.