i know excataly where they live and their plate # but he is an ex-boyfriend and i am afraid of him.... we also have a daughter together so how do i go about letting someone know where he is at and get him arrest and or picked up because i dont want to get into trouble for knowing where he is at and not letting the police know... but i dont want him to know it was me that turned him in
2006-07-28 07:27:47 · 18 answers · asked by kellnrex 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
Unless he's wanted for a violent crime why worry about it? They will catch up to him. If it is a violent crime he is wanted for just tip off the police. They'll act on it, and you don't have to give your name.
2006-07-28 07:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being afraid of your ex-boyfriend is either an indication that he is abusive or that you have a serious psychological issue. Either way, you should seek help. My first step (assuming that the former, rather than the latter, is correct) would be to discreetly contact the police. Anyone that gives you good reason to fear them in your life is a serious problem. I always move to either resolve the problem, excommunicate them, or remove the threat. In the case of an abusive boyfriend that has a warrant for his arrest, the solution has already presented itself. It is always better to allow someone else to handle the dirty work, so I'd be more than happy to allow the police to remove someone that poses a threat to my life.
Remember to thouroughly explain your concerns to the police or they will not know why you are worried and may act in total disregard of your fears.
2006-07-28 19:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by Cheshire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get your nighties in a knot over this.
If you know where he is, a lot of other people probably do, too. In fact, the police might know already and be letting him stay there as a magnet for others they want to catch. Besides, how is it clear that you know all about his being wanted? Unless you filed the complaint that led to the warrant, I don't think you're as involved as you think you are.
Why not find a job and move a couple thousand miles away?
2006-07-28 17:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you should do! TURN HIM IN! You can be arrested and charge with conspiracy if they find out you know where he is and don't say anything. Why, in the world would you even go out with a person like that let alone have sex and get pregnant?
2006-07-28 14:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just let him be? Why do you feel the need to screw him over? If you where any kind of a decent person you'd help him take care of the warrant without going to jail so your daughters' father wouldn't go to jail. Go get on Jerry Springer!
2006-07-28 14:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the police about your situation. It's nice to have them on your side. Tell them that you want to remain anonymous if the ex asks about who turned him in
2006-07-28 14:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell if its for your safety, the police will keep your name a secret if you let them know that you are afraid of him, the just want to catch the guy and keep you and your child safe in the process
2006-07-28 14:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by jada_24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make an anonymous call from a pay phone. You shouldn't have to give your information.
2006-07-28 14:29:45 · answer #8 · answered by celia a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do it anonomously and not get into any trouble or if you do give your name you can request that the police dont tell him wwho turned him in because of whatever reasons you have...
2006-07-28 15:16:45 · answer #9 · answered by minx64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call and give the information anonymously.
2006-07-28 14:30:17 · answer #10 · answered by MOM KNOWS EVERYTHING 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋