Theres so many questions that go thru my head when I hear the word PREGNANT. Why get pregnant? Did you choose to or it just happend? Do you regret it? What if you never wanted to have childen?
2006-07-28 07:26:39 · 10 answers · asked by Whoa!! 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I have been married for 1 yr. (No children) Don't want any but my husband is on a whole different page. He knew this before we got married and sometimes I think twice before anything happens maybe is just me thinking he wants to get me pregnant because our relationship has been rocky for the past couple of months. And I saw good old Dr. Phil the other day it was about spouses trapping there partners by getting them pregnant because they thought if they had a family they wouldn't leave. I just got a job that could take me places and im still trying to find out what is my purpose and if we are even going to last.So no im not ready for another life in my life. But im not sure how he feels with me getting a good paying job he probably thinks now i don't need him or something. I have tryed talking to him about eveything to see his point of view but its just so hard for him he hates confrontation so he just stays quiet which doesn't help at all. What can I do?
2006-07-28 11:53:56 · update #1
Some people never should! I had been married four years and both of us really wanted children, we were 27 and ready for kids.
It was a good thing, because we had twins! It was a lot of work when they were small. For me being a mother was the hardest job and yet the best job I ever had.
If you are at all self-centered or do not really want a child, do yourself and the child a favor and don't get pregnant.
2006-07-28 10:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by shepherd 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The first time I got pregnant it was unexpected. I was 19 and away at college. It was scary, but it has been the best thing to ever happen to me. My son Jackson is now three and his daddy and I are happily married. We had to grow up a little bit faster than we would have and our lives did not go exactly as planned, but I don't regret a thing. I love where I'm at. Right now we are trying to get pregnant again. (I'm hoping that I already am, it's just too early to tell!) It's a totally different experience from the first one. I'm so excited! So, I know that getting pregnant can be a totally different experience depending on who you are, how old you, and where you are in life. Hopefully, when you get the news that you are, you are able to deal with it, and decide how to make the best decision for your situation. What has always worked for me in life is to just take what you get and make it work.
2006-07-28 07:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! That is quite younger to begin. Just indicates how a long way the arena has taken matters to the severe. I am sorry to listen to that you simply desire her to get an abortion, existence is a present from God, although we do not see it that method regularly. If she can not manage being a mom at that younger age, then possibly keep in mind adoption. There are tons of loving couples in the market loss of life to have a little one in their possess, however can not as a result of clinical causes, so adoption would be the correct reply. I understand she needed to have intercourse the night time she went to the films five months in the past and got here residence at the hours of darkness, it's the most effective reply that is sensible. But can sh love the little one like a little one demands love? Will she stand up at 10:00, 12:00, two:00 each night time and nonetheless cross to university? Just whatever to believe approximately.
2016-08-28 16:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got pregnant on purpose all 3 times. I now have 2 beautiful children(1 miscarriage). I have never regretted it for a second and would love to have more children. A desire to have children is something that has always been there for me.
2006-07-28 07:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by therego2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why get pregnant? - When you're stable in life, and are mentally, physically and financially ready, a child can complete your life. My son has made my life seem more meaningful.
Did I choose? - Yes, I was married and fairly stable and financially read for him.
Do I regret it? - Hell no, he's one of the best things that ever happened to me.
What if you never wanted children?- Dont have sex. Or get a hysterectomy before you do.
2006-07-28 07:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want children then have one, personally I have 4 beautiful children some were planned some weren't but I love all of them, I have no regrets.
2006-07-28 07:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by kznight1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
accident, I didn't want to add to the over population in the world. But, just one kid doesn't hurt the earth too much. He is a wonderful boy, and I'm glad about it. But, I would never do it again intentionally.
2006-07-28 07:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These questions can only be answered by you , each person has to make their own choices
2006-07-28 07:31:23 · answer #8 · answered by a_woman_with_a_brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want children, avoid unprotected sex or abstain from sex all together. You don't have to have children.
2006-07-28 07:30:38 · answer #9 · answered by bigtony615 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
e5ter
2006-07-28 07:29:24 · answer #10 · answered by uniquefabulasgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋