i have known this guy for about 6- 7 years, we have been together once but then i told him that i dont want to ruin our amazing friendship. we are best friends now, i see him almost everyday and i know everything about him and he knows everything about me....
when i told him that i didnt want to ruin our relationship i still liked him. he has been with another girl and the just resently broke up, and now i think it is the perfect time to eb with him but i don't know how to tell him how i feel. because he doesnt really like when i ask him who he likes...... so how can i tell him, without really telling him??? and how do i know if he likes me or not???
Thanks so much for people who give me real answers!!!!!!!
With Love
~*+*Chloe*+*~
2006-07-28 07:16:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I cant kiss him, i mean i want to but my mom says im not alloud to date.
2006-07-31 09:26:10 · update #1
you have to take the risk and say hey.. look.. I know I said I didn't want to ruin our friendship, but we are so close that I think we should consider trying to see if we can work through things. I know you well and still like you.. what are your thoughts? it risks being told no.. but that's part of life.. and if he's your best friend.. maybe he loves you... 50/50 chance
2006-07-28 07:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by breathofvitality 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The dilema is...do you risk your friendship and tell the guy how you really feel, or do you keep your mouth shut and basically live a lie because you want to be more than friends. The best thing to do for YOURSELF, is to tell him how you really feel...outright, not subtle hints, just lay it out on the table. However, I think you should do this when the timing is right. Only you can know that for yourself. I've come across a similar situation and you can't force these things.
If he doesn't return the feelings, then it might be best for you to tone down the friendship because you don't want to be lying to yourself as to why you are really friends with him in the first place.
Good luck hon.
2006-07-28 14:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by PMC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know, you just have to take the chance. It's scary, that's certain, but you know, it'll be worth it. If he doesn't like you asking who he likes, it might be because he knows he likes you and is nervous. You guys are friends, and if you've stayed together as such for so long, it means you two have been through a lot together. You already stuck by each other's side. You both already know each other better than anyone else ever will. So take the chance and next time you two are talking, say you have something serious to say to him. Then look him in the eye and tell him that you know he just got out of a relationship, but is he willing to take another chance, with you.
2006-07-28 14:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by callmegoddess618 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chloe,
You girls and your damn hints. Will your side of the species never learn that hints do nothing but confused an already confused male mind? Just tell the guy what is what and let the chips fall where they may. By the way from what little I read, it sounds like he likes you but doesn't want you to give him the same old song and dance about friendship. If all else fails just kiss the guy.
2006-07-28 14:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had my best friend for 7 years. We were in the same thing you are, i had a b-f of 3 years and he had a g-f for 3 1/2. When we were finally single again we hung out EVERY day and had the best time. Then it was kinda weird but one night we were layin there and we just kissed. It was risky but were still together now. If you know him that well you will know if its safe to just go in and kiss him & wait for the reaction. Good Luck!!!
2006-07-28 14:22:55 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These type questions are hard to give honest answers to because we do not know enough about the both of you. But I hope this site will be helpful or lead you to other helpful sites that will honestly help you with your question. It's not easy not being a kid and yet not being grown up. Read, Listen, and learn these are some of the best years of your life make them count and make them good. Good Luck:-)
2006-07-28 14:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, iguess you should talk to him straight and tell him how you feel about him and get to know his feelings too!!
dont be shy or scared,u have nothing to lose...trust me communication is the key,the more you talk clearly the better you get to know the other persons views,dont waste your time trying to find out his feelings thru different modes,by assuming and imagining...........you will end up complicating things even further!!
you guys have known eachother for such a long time,trust me you'll make a perfect match,cos you'll know and undertsand each other!!just be brave and go get him!!
2006-07-28 14:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by countrygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be straight forward with him....just tell him the truth and straight up too...cause if you try and find ways to tell him with out really telling him...you could be sending mixed signals and they might not be in your favor....just muster up the courage to tell him...i mean whats the worst that could happen? he could say no.....i highly doubt that your friendship would go down hill with you asking him....
2006-07-28 14:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by raven wants it... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel and that you want to try and he should trysome thing new......
2006-07-28 14:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by EDITH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋