i love him so much and i don't want him to be angry at me. please what do i do when i noticed he is angry at me.
2006-07-28 07:05:30 · 16 answers · asked by ifeoma o0 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Dont get panicked. This is a process problem not an event problem.
Anger = Expectations - Reality
Clear communication, and functional negotiations can establish realistic expectations and radically cut down on his anger, AND the things that create it.
Good books:
His Needs Her Needs
A Lasting Promise
The Five Love Languages
2006-07-28 07:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by Curly 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is he your husband or your father? Spouses do have arguments and disagreements, but do so as adults who can speak with each other and should be able to solve their problems together. If you are just afraid of making him angry all the time then you are in a very unequal relationship. Does he fear making you angry too? If not, then it sounds like he's treating you like a young child. If you do not do anything wrong (like lie to him or cheat on him, or spend all the household money on trinkets, you get the idea) then don't be afraid.
2006-07-28 07:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by slackster1998 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for most men is to give them plenty of space, and good heavens, don't pester him about why he is angry! He is sure to tell you soon enough, and I am sure you would prefer it after he is calm. If your husband seems to be irritated or upset with you frequently, seemingly without reason, get some counseling. He may not go, but it will help you to deal with it. If he goes, even if out of curiousity about what you are talking about, all the better!!!It is possible that he may be depressed or be anxious. Even hearing the suggestions that a therapist may give you may inadverdently help him! Good luck!
2006-07-28 07:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by alone1with3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel he's angry for a reason? If he's angry about anything you can't control or just angry all the time, please get some help. You shouldn't have to live with someone who is constantly angry as it may lead to violence. If this is just from a fight, or something you did that hurt his feelings etc., try apologizing by doing something nice for him.
2006-07-28 07:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when u noticed that he is getting angry, just spot what ever you are doing and just give him a big kiss and tell him that u love him..... i think that will show him that u are sorry for making him angry. ^_~
2006-07-28 07:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with it. People always get in little fights and maybe you don't make him upset probably other problem like work. Communicating is a good solution when someone is angry and don't be scared.
2006-07-28 07:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by Lucia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know because I am the one who always gets angry. Should you ask my husband? Sorry, he's right behind me.
2006-07-28 07:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by klay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultimately, we would like to not anger our significant others and when we try not to, it seems it still happens. I'm not sure what to tell you about this as there are so many levels of possibilities going on, but at the base of it all I would try to have a discussion about the issue with him and see where that gets you.
2006-07-28 07:11:37 · answer #8 · answered by Nientech 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when my husband gets angry i get angry too...so i go to another room n close the door n watch tv til he calms down.then he eventually come around n we talk about whats making him angry..
2006-07-28 07:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by purrdykitten2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is part of marriage, he will get over it soon enough. Just do not nag at him saying whats wrong. That will only prolong the situation. Cook something that is going to smell really good, that always worked for me. Good luck
2006-07-28 07:09:23 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋