there is this girl i like and i feel she likes me to, i also intend having sex with her although shes olden than i am, but the problem is i have never had sex before, and i dont know how to get her have it with me.
2006-07-28 07:02:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Important info!!! You can rarely "get" a girl to have sex with you. She has to "want" to have sex with you. If you are in the "get" mode while around here, that means all you are thinking about is yourself. You need to be thinking about her! This way, you will be in the position so she will like being around you, get comforatable and eventually will "want" to have sex with you. Assuming you both are adults, try figuring out ways to be around her as much as possible, without being a stalker. Don't act all horny around her, do things to help her out, act as mature as possible. This may take several weeks, don't give up and don't give in and do something stupid, like make a clumsy pass at her the first time she may flirt with you. Basically take your time and if it is ment to be, she will be the one who is wanting sex from you. That is the best position to be in my friend. Another thing you might want to mention to her once she is comfortable and has flirted with you some would be to tell her you are a virgin and that you want your first time to be special, with someone experienced, who you care about. Giving her that information up front is a sign of maturity and will help let her know your intentions. Telling her that info before you get intimate, will also help to avoid an embarassing conversation if you happen to get a little too excited prior to intercourse. (Which happens the first few times more often than not!) You may also want to add that you are not looking for a relationship, just some "lessons" and fun times. :) Good luck! Oh, one more thing, if you do "get" to have sex with her, don't go bragging all over town about it after! Especially, if you want it again. :)
2006-07-28 07:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by funcd4play 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, think about this in reverse. How would she feel about having sex with a younger boy that never had sex before and didn't know how to get the sex from her. Do you think she would be interested in someone like that? If not, wait until you are of age and know these things naturally, talk to your parents.
2006-07-28 07:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive always believed in being upfront and bold,although most people arent, I admire someone who knows what they want and arent afraid to try to get it so my advice to you is to take her to a nice setting somewhere and be honest, and tell her whats on your mind. The worst thing that will happen is she will say no. Go for It!
2006-07-28 07:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You INTEND to have sex with this woman, but you are a virgin? You'd better change your mindset dear...drop that down to "desire" and then you may have a slim chance...however if she's not into you, it's not likely to happen...
2006-07-28 07:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband says, pretend you're innocent about sex so she'll teach you. Ask her how babies are made or better yet show you how.
2006-07-28 07:06:42 · answer #5 · answered by klay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell her that you like her and you never had sex so you think she is the one you whont to have sex with
2006-07-28 07:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by ashley w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to her and say....."i am yours, do with me what you want!"
if she falls down laughing, well at least she's already on the ground for you too fall onto! good luck!
2006-07-28 07:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to teach you everything she no'sWhile holding your ears
2006-07-28 07:06:22 · answer #8 · answered by polockpete40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she will like to teach you.
2006-07-28 07:06:14 · answer #9 · answered by Lucia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and you are in the same boat man.....
2006-07-28 07:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by twizzler_cola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋