First, I'm so very sorry. I know this is a terrible time for you. What have the doctors said?
I've been through this disease with two different friends, and unfortunately, when it goes to the liver, the outcome is not good.
Love her through it. Be her support, her strength. Let her talk about her feelings, no matter how difficult it may be for you. If she wants to make final arrangements, this is important for her to be able to do.
Just let HER take the lead, and you be there to be whatever she needs. It's a terrible time for all involved, but please allow her to talk about the disease, the likely outcome, etc. Anything she CAN do to prolong her life is good, but ONLY if she wants to do it. Let her decide how much she can take, and when she's tired, respect that. You can, being this way, make this so much easier for her.
God bless you and your family. My heart goes out to you, truly.
Hugs
2006-07-28 07:05:22
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answered by Amy N 4
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What do you mean? I assume she is being cared for by an oncologist (cancer doctor), right?
Talk to the doctor's office. They will be able to direct you to a cancer support group. Not just for your mom but for the family.
2006-07-28 07:02:02
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answered by Anonymous
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Help her to have the most memorable times right now, live life to the fullest. Lastly ,pray if you are religious like myself.
2006-07-28 07:03:43
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answered by sha scrilla 3
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The best thing that I can tell you is don't argue with her even if you know you are right.Stress can make an illness so much worse.
2006-07-28 07:03:22
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answered by m_l_p73 3
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Live youre life! Is precious! Valuable for bouth of you!
2006-07-28 07:00:47
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answered by Jerdy 5
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Stay strong for your mother. Show her much love.
2006-07-28 07:01:41
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answered by D L 3
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Be as supportive as possible and spend as much time as you can....just be informed by the dr. constantly
2006-07-28 07:01:42
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answered by Cassie 4
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Love her when she's sick after radiation and Chemo, pray for her when she can't, have faith because its way to heavy and FIGHT, FIGHT, FIGHT.
She's moms!!
2006-07-28 07:04:02
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answered by B1 2
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just be nice to her and show her you love her
2006-07-28 07:02:40
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answered by dumplingmuffin 7
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show her you love her everyday....
2006-07-28 07:00:03
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answered by lida 2
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