We were dating for a lil while, and he would call everynight, and always want to hang out - and then one day outta nowhere it changed, now he doesnt even seem to have time for me - but for some reason I cant let him go, I care about him way too much - what should I do
2006-07-28 06:51:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, wheres your dignity, and self respect?? Move on, even though it might hurt like hell, just dont let it show.....
Do it for you..move on.
2006-07-28 06:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by Katz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has he just stopped calling as much? Or has he broken up with you? If he just stopped calling as much as he did then I would confront him. Calling every night is a bit much. Even if he DOES love you. I would just airily ask him why he hasn't been calling so much.. I bet he has just been busy and hasn't had time to call. But if he says something like, "I don't have time for that anymore" or something like that, I would definatly drop him.. because that seems like he thinks that you aren't very important.
2006-07-28 06:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by lost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a loser with a capital L. forget about him,. he was probably dating you and other at the same time, and when he found something he likes better than you, he drop you. and he will come back. they all do. and then is when u need to be strong and stand your ground, and not let him back.
forget about him. you need someone who will put you 1st of their list, and treat you with respect and admoration. not some loser who only used you until he did not need to anymore.
2006-07-28 06:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by lasalle_1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't care about him as much as you tricked yourself up to believe. You care about being rejected. Deal with the rejection and move on. Remember rejecting is a part of life.
2006-07-28 06:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is not caring for you anymore you cant make someone stay. leave him alone for a while see if he comes back this is the only thing you can do. if he really is concerned he will call you or see you.
2006-07-28 06:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out the reason what make him changed.. solve it asap or else if you let it get worst and that's it. maybe he is playing mind games. he wanna you to take initiative.
2006-07-28 07:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by yiwei_tay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may have found someone else. I suggest letting go. You deserve better.
2006-07-28 06:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him. See what's going on. Protect you better interests. Maybe something came up. Can't know until you ask.
2006-07-28 07:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you said, he used to care...
don't dwell on what will not be...
one of lifes lessons is WHEN to let go.
2006-07-28 06:55:40 · answer #9 · answered by LovePinkPuffies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋