2006-07-28 06:45:13 · 32 answers · asked by Who am I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 210 lb and 5'6".
2006-07-28 10:36:20 · update #1
It doesn't matter how big you are there is someone for everyone. Dress up and look the best you can. Flirt with every guy your attracted to. Show confidence in the way you carry yourself. I have seen beautiful girls with nice figures that have no confidence and I have seen big girls who walk into the room like they own it and end up meeting the opposite sex. Have fun!!!!
2006-07-28 06:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't you EVER say that about yourself again!
How are you going to get anyone if you feel that negative about yourself? You have to love and appreciate yourself before anyone can appreciate or even recognize you.
I don't know what the problem is but, it sounds like you are not happy with yourself and if that is the case then do something about it. I gained 20-25 pounds when I was in college and I got depressed but I had to sacrifice tv shows and fast food and sweet and I've lost those pounds and more.
I know it is hard with all the things on tv and people being so vain, but you have to love yourself and if you want to be smaller then get smaller.
so my advice is to not worry about being with the opposite sex anytime soon...you need to get yourself together and no one wants to deal with that baggage and if it's somebody that has the same baggage as you then you will not grow and you will be stuck in that negative life you are in now.
I've been with guys and i be feeling them and i find out they want me smaller, or bigger, or want me to be more light skin, or darker,...and you know what i do? i erase they *** in the quickness cause nothing is wrong with me and if you are not feeling me then move on with your vain *** and ruin someone else self-esteem. I you have to look in the mirror everyday and say I'm the ****...say it and believe in yourself if you don't noone else will
2006-07-28 07:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by rach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. Some1 out there would love you as you are.
However, if that worries you; don't let a single day pass without exercise, until you rich the desired wait.
If that makes you tied then do 30 minutes each session per week. Watch out your diet though.
regards.
2006-07-28 06:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of people out there that go for larger people. Just keep faith that you'll meet one someday and don't let others make you feel bad. You can always loose weight if you choose and make yourself into society's image of beauty, but those who have made fun of you will always be ugly on the inside.
2006-07-28 06:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true and be yourself. You have a great personality dont you? Then show it off! And I bet your smart too so good conversation will come natural for you. There are more people in this world of ours that are more interested in what you have inside than what you have on the outside! God Bless!
2006-07-28 06:57:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your head right! Low self esteem isn't sexy at all. There are lots of over weight people out there, but they carry themselves with confidence and believe in who they are under it all. I have a friend who is on the big side, but she carries it so well that she exudes sexuality and gets more attention then I do at times.
2006-07-28 06:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by str8tequila80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, calling yourself fat will get you nowhere. Everyone is going to KNOW that you don't have confidence.
Second off, my suggestion would be to accent your BEST features.
If you have big boobs - get a good supporting bra and kick those babies up.
If you have a big booty - wear some slimming pants. Black is always a good color.
Good luck.
2006-07-28 06:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear, i am sorry to say that u do have a wrong conception abt attraction. it is not the body that always attract people but through his/her behavior,confidence and mind. plz dont orget that u also need a warm heart or this. so dont worry if u do have this qualities then ur looks hardly matters.
2006-07-28 06:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by aguntuk02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to loose some weight by fasting for 5 days.
2006-07-28 06:50:12 · answer #9 · answered by do you smell..... what's coo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not that bad. im pretty decent looking, i mean, i dont want to sound conceited or anything, but i do get quite a lot of comments from guys saying im pretty and hot.....and im dating a guy thats overweight. if weight or appearance is an issue, then you know that person is not the one for you, or you shouldnt be dating them.
2006-07-28 06:53:13 · answer #10 · answered by jeanette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋