I'm the daughter of a thief, who had always cheated on my mom, she knows it but she don't wanna divorce cauz he supports me and my brother financially.
I am lonely, I lost my friends, my bfs , cauz everytime I made some, I had to move out cauz dad did "something"
he was jailed 3 times.
He is now on a "business trip" for 8 months I haven't seen him! He doesn't love me , and I dont love him by the way
I don't get along with my brother he is a psycho, once he was about to kill us and suicide
God damn it I'm so confused.. On top of that I have all the problems of a regular girl: School , love, money problems etc...
PLEASE I don't want no solutions.. I just want you tell me that you have read this and that you understand what I'm talking about
2006-07-28 06:40:47 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i forgot to say that they never supported me in anything, especially my mom who keeps on putting me down
2006-07-28 06:47:44 · update #1
ummm wow....call the cops
2006-07-28 06:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have read this and understand you all the way. You need to go to the police with this and get some help for you before it is to late. You should not be with either of your parents. You should be with a family that loves and cares about YOU as a person. You didn't say how old you were either. And if you want to talk to someone, I'm here and will listen to you and if I can, I will even try to help you out. My heart goes out to you!!!! I don't recall you saying how old you are.
2006-07-28 08:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously still in school...on what level I do not know. middle? high school? You have gotten some really good answers...just remember we all create are own worlds...your dad has done that.. to bad he doesn't realize when he does time so do you and your family...Practice integrity, honesty, be forthright no matter what...find some interest you have and pursue them...abide your time..you do not have to wallow or follow those footsteps...Your parents cant teach you something they have no awareness or desire to! Be your own person...when you graduate you can move on Be the best you can be and thats all you can control in your life...you are not responsible for some one elses actions!! Go to other peoples homes..they do not need to know anything or all things..tell them your Mom is a slob and the house is dirty...find some human connection with your peers...You will be O.k. You are building character and strength..you just need to learn the tools to deal with this...I can give you a referral if you want...e-mail me please!
2006-07-28 07:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by Heard It All 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am glad you said "no solutions" almost all men want to solve problems and fix thing. It's difficult for us just to listen and share.
I am sorry your life is so complicated. When I had a lot of trouble in my life a friend told me "the sun always come up in the morning." I asked him what that meant. He said when you were very little you were afraid of the dark. You didn't know if there were monster or ghost, but you were afraid of the un-known. Then when the sun came up in the morning everything looked brighter and you weren't afraid any more. You have brighter day ahead, trust me "the sun always comes up in the morning".
2006-07-28 07:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by always a friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really do understand you and I hope your adult life comes out better than mine did i don't want to judge but if you ever want to talk and just need some one to listen i will be here for you i will just listen I was in a similar situation as a child and know how good it feels to vent with out a lecture and some one giving you answers that that never become a solution
peace and hair grease
2006-07-28 06:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by doodle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry about your situation. It sounds like you have grown up alot in a short time. Just try to be strong. All your experience will build to your character. It would be helpful to seek some support outside. Therapy through your school, maybe. You have to look after yourself b/c it sounds like your family has been doing a poor job of it. Take care.
2006-07-28 06:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..I'm Sorry for all that has happened to you..That is horrible that u have to go threw all this and that ur parents dont even care about you..Well i have read this but i cant say that i know what ur going threw because i dont..but i do know what it is like to be unloved..and its not fun..and to have no friends is even worse...I'm so sorry..that this has happened to you..All i can say is pray it doesnt always help but sometimes it does
2006-07-28 06:59:07 · answer #7 · answered by Lennie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand.... life is hard for everyone. But keep studying and gettting good grades then go to a good college and get a degree. By that time you will be an adult and be able to take care of youserlf, get married and have a family. Good Luck
Cheers!
2006-07-28 06:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get some help!! I support you! I've gone through problems with my dad being in prison and he's been disrespectful to my mother!!! You need to let your mom know that she needs to get rid of him!!! Why does she want all that **** in the family? Talk to your mom now!!
2006-07-28 06:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you've taken the first step by telling all of us. I understand what you're going through. Now you need to take the next step and make this all stop.
2006-07-28 06:45:35 · answer #10 · answered by christigmc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have read this and I really do understand. You asked for no solutions, so I will give you none. Hang in there and be tough. Good luck
2006-07-28 06:43:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋