im leaving for moscow next month for six years, which came as a shock to my girlfriend.she has decided to stop seeing me but is very much in love with me.she has started trial seperation right from now.as i'm gonna leave after 1 month,she has barred me from meeting her because she says it will make her too weak.i understand her feelings but its really hard for me not to meet her, whom i love so much.she really really loves me and we promised to love eachother forever.what should i do to keep her out of my mind????i really miss her a lot lot.
2006-07-28 06:37:20 · 12 answers · asked by loving_u_4ever_n_always 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i begged her for meeting me.i asked her to meet me at a place for only one hour. i told her that i will need only 60 minutes of her life , just to see her and then i will not meet her for 1 whole year(i am coming back home every 1 year for a month vacation)she agreed to this.
2006-07-29 00:04:27 · update #1
Maybe u can find someone else in moscow.
2006-07-28 06:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a russian woman - they are all over the internet and they love americans (especially ones with a job). Moscow is an Ok town.
2006-07-28 13:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by Michael S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have 30 days to remember and see things in this country. I'd do some sightseeing and shopping. It will be over before you know it.
Fact is, she will contact you. Respect her. Based on what you typed it sounded like you knew it was coming and didn't tell her. If so, that was some cold shhhhtit to do to someone.
2006-07-28 13:41:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are only two things you can really do in this situation: stay or leave. If you stay, no problem. If you leave, can she go with you. If she can and will, no problem. If she can't, both of you should move on...and that means not seeing each other. Sorry.
2006-07-28 13:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by Colin W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear brother, its hard to go away from the person whom u love. I love a girl who loves me too. we did many promises to be with each other forever but infact she is away now and has left e. i love her from heart. i am in a deep trouble but what can i do..... just patiance. i can not sleep compeletly even one night i can not be happy even for one second just because i have not my love with me. now i have to spend y life lonely to be with her memories. with the moments i spend with her. Yes it is reality and i have to bear it...... So be brave like me and spend ur time with the sweet memories passed with ur love. those are your golden memories........ Just be brave. Its too hard. I know as i m also in the same situation but a bit different as i know she will never come back its deep trouble but u know u will be back after 6 years. its not a very big deal as compared to me. so be brave i will pray for you. thnx hope you will understand my point of view....
2006-07-28 13:47:22 · answer #5 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she can't go with you and you a set on leaving for six years. You must let her go...... Move on with your life and let her do the same thing..... but remember if your love is true then it will bring you back to her......
2006-07-28 13:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by fire bush 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why prolong the agony. You know you will not have a relationship with her again. All it is is a long goodbye. I hate long goodbyes. You told her you were leaving her life... so, leave already.
2006-07-28 13:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by Wyld Stallyns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you leaving for six years? I would leave you too. You can't expect her to hang around, thats way too long.
2006-07-28 13:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to move with u and if she cant then u tell her that u will wait for her! and that will help u not feel so bad about leaving her behind.....focus on a hobby that u did before u met her..like uh running, so u ran before u met so do it now! i dunno something like that i suppose best wishes :)
2006-07-28 13:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loves your gf let her do what she wants to do and respect her feelings.
2006-07-28 13:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by <<< sky >>> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋