guys n girls i request u to plz guide me very seriously coz im extremely sad n crying.how can i get my bf's cl

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plz give serious advice to me. im in great trouble and crying. my bf has been very jealous types and he accepted that always and he had told me that he doesnt like my getting close to any guy coz he imagines scenes . but on june 5th june i joined salsa classes and asked my bf to join but he had gym at that time.I caled up n told my bf tht a very sweet guy proposed me to be my partner and my bf sounded cool but next day i got his rude n taunting mesgs and when i told him that he is jus a dance partner,he didnt believe n told me that he'l get investigation done n if he finds somthing wrong he wil never contact me.And the same hapnd.My dance class got over on 17th june. but its been 2 months now that he hasnt caled up.He doesnt look at me when we cross on road but i hav seen him looking at me when im pretending tht im not looking at him.He is hiding tht he looks at me.I kept mesging n persuading to make him belive tht i didnt mean to hurt him but on 10july i mesgd tht i will now forget him coz he doesnt reply n may b he was jus passing time with me as we cant get married he knows. But last week i crossed him in my car n ignored him.Immediately i got his mesg on 21st july that-"My blood starts to boil when i see ur face n i feel like slapping u".Then on 25th july i again ignored n didnt look at him when we crossed n got his mesg immediately that-"I feel like slapping u" .

MY QUESTION- 1. why is he reacting this way and for how long he wil remain angry??? 2. will he contact me and end up the quarrel?? 3. should i contact him?? 4. should i ignore coz megsing n caling is of no use as he didnt reply but now im not contacting...so he mesgd? 5.does he love me thats why so much jealous coz he hates tht guy n cals him my lover n asked me to hav sex with him n be in his arms. he thinks that guy is more rich n goodlooking than him. how will he become normal plz guide me

Answer 1

Okay this dude is seriously mental. He seems tobe very very violent and he might actually hurt you. You need to put out a restraining order out on him. Change your number and get some kind of security. You need to take some self defense classes and just be careful. I think he needs help too, because jealousy like that is not because of love its because he thinks of you as his property.

Answer 2

What you should do is change your number and don't contact him at all. This guy is sick in the head, if you can't have a salsa dance partner then it is his fault not yours. You didn't do anything wrong, it is this guys fault no one elses. If you get back with this guy, things are only going to get worse trust me, just don't talk to him and try and forget about him, you will find someone that will be everything you want him to be, I promise!!

Answer 3

baby girl, i hate to say this but he's not good for you. he blows things out of proportion. image if you were to be married, you'll have to walk on egg shells around him. ignore him, think of him as a jerk that let his jealousy take over him. you're true to yourself as far as the faithfulness goes. don't worry about a thing baby girl. change your # or block his number. you need to to this so he can't threaten you. you're doing things for yourself which i great and i'm happy for you. you sounds like a nice girl. you don't need to get involve with someone who physically wants to harm you. keep your head up, and be strong.

Answer 4

this guy seriously has anger management. u don't need a guy like that. if he hurts u in a nyway..... he does NOT love u.... sounds to me.... (REALLY sorry to say this) like he hates you or something... i mean, jealousy is okay but this guy has TOO MUCH jealousy... and if he can't also accept that you don't do things with other guys then he's not worth it.... move on with your life..... and maybe this happened because u two aren't meant for each other and....... your gonna find a nice, sweet, "un-jealousy" guy someday.....

Answer 5

i think you should not go out with him.it looks like if u do go out him there will always be problems.im the same way i get jelous when i break up with a girl i dont like anyone touching her but me its just jelousy he doesnt like u.sorry about that just trying to help u.u have to move on even if its hard.if u get back together he will just abuse u .maybe u should change your number,that will get on his nerv u have 2 look out for yourself .good luck,hope u feel better ,stop crying u r strong.

Answer 6

PLEASE listen to me -- get as far away from that guy as possible -- quit playing games with him -- he is very, very INSECURE -- i KNOW what i'm talking about -- this guy sounds like he's capable of anything -- he has already told you that he wants to HIT you --- RUN, RUN, RUN -- this guy is a LOSER!!!!!!!!--- I'll just tell you a short version of a very long story -- my brother and his wife were murdered several years ago while they slept -- the guy that murdered them was exactly like the guy you describe --- he was married to my very young niece right when she reached 'marrying' age -- please tell someone that you need help to get away from this guy -- while you still have a chance -- if you ever listened to anybody in your entire life --- please let it be me.

Answer 7

Run away from this man while you have the chance. This is just the start to years of jealousy & unhappiness-

Answer 8

Please, run, do not walk away as fast as you can! This man has a mental problem. This kind of jealousy is not love and not the kind you want. It is not a compliment to you. Find someone who is more secure than he is.

Answer 9

find a new one, way too much drama, really jealousy is not a sign of love but more of a sign of low self esteem, find someone who is a happier easier person to be with

Answer 10

this guy sounds like a horrible piece of crap, and I wouldn't spend one more second even thinking about him...........