We live together and he is a sweet heart. He treats me wonderful and is awesome, but I logged into his email account to get a pic that I sent myself (my email wasnt working) and I saw that some girl had sent him 2 pictures of her...one with no shirt on and her arm covering her nipples and one of just her face. They were from her cell phone so I texted her and asked if I had anything to worry about. Come to find out he met her on a phone chat line while I was at work (he is currently looking for a job) and asked for the pictures. This is the first time this has happend (that I know of). What do I do? tell him about the pictures I saw (he hasnt checked his mail or seen them yet)? or bring up the subject of cheating and make sure he knows that phone line chat and internet chatting is cheating just as much as personal, one-on-one contact?
2006-07-28 06:24:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aww, i'm sorry!!! If I were u, I would talk to my boyfriend and tell him the truth about how you are feeling. talk calmly and rationally and have answers ready to some excuses he may try to make. Tell him that you consider that cheating, wheather it is in person or not. Also, make sure to ask him to put himself in your position and ask how he would feel if he discovered u were asking for photos of half naked men while he was at work. Maybe that will help him realize that he is hurting you and he needs to stop. Good luck hun!!!
2006-07-28 11:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by katie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he's been to busy on the chat lines instead of looking for a job. He's not really cheating but he is being dishonest, and if he meets someone online that happens lives in your area he might be enticed to meet her. If I were you I would confront him.
2006-07-28 13:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it's not the same as 1:1 contact. It's not good, but it's not the same.
Sure you need to talk to him. Find out why he's doing it, and ensure he stops.
2006-07-28 13:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by FatElvis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him about the pictures you saw n tell him that you know about that girl he b talk to online n ask him about the girl
2006-07-28 17:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by Mis.Jones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋