that sound like a crime of passion just waiting to happen, they've been apart more than a year, he says he cant afford a restraining order ? does he secretly maybe still love her even if he says he dont, she is pretty wako i've read some of the notes ,its like shes bi-polar, one sentence say i still love you and the next says how much she hates him ??? stay ? or move on to less drama ?
2006-07-28 06:22:14 · 12 answers · asked by transplanted 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get away quickly!
2006-07-28 06:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Brown Suga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find the money for a restraining order or tell her that she is not going to get what she wants because it is not longer one of her options. I wouldn't leave him over something like this, I would find a way to make her go away. She may end up having emotional problems. If you don't think that he is worth the drama and the fight for then I guess you could move on. But I think that there are measures that be taken to get her out of the picture.
2006-07-28 06:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by busyliz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some maybe they just want to see a fight they might get off on it. For others they may not know how to let the person down easy they don't wanna hurt any ones feelings but as far as staying in a relationship like that me personally I would be whooping some *** or put a restraining order out do something especially if you want to stay don't give up on your relationship because of outside influences.
2006-07-28 06:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by Antwain H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not doing anything to stop it then move on, when I first started dating my bf he had an ex gf that would call and he just said to her one day I have a new gf I'm happy where I am and I don't want to jeopardize it it was nice to hear from you good luck in life, she called 1 time after that like 2 years later & that time he kinda gave it to her he was a little more angry and kinda went off and she never called again the purpose of that story is if he wants to be with you badly enough he will put a stop to it.
2006-07-28 06:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by candidworker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if you really love the guy. My boyfriend has an ex that comes around sometimes and bothers him/us....he has a restraining order on her though. I stay with my guy cuz no matter how much drama I love the guy and any past things are not going to keep us apart. The fact that the ex is crazy and wont leave him alone is not his fault so dont punish him for it.
2006-07-28 06:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first you need to somewhat get better out of your ex until eventually finally now courting some different person.. that is basically no longer straightforward to the present guy that your courting, cuz you isn't waiting to be thoroughly uncomplicated with him for the reason that you do even if have thoughts on your ex and also you have not any further enable him bypass. i imagine of for you to communicate on your bf now, tell him that your no longer thoroughly over the ex. search for suggestion from from the ex and get the closure to a minimum of one courting until eventually finally now you attempt transferring ahead in this courting. You with suggestions from no skill understand your ex ought to paintings it out yet both way even if he does no longer you receives peace of concepts and also you'll understand when you're dropping a lengthy time period. I recommend why sit down round and bypass over him if he's not any longer lacking you. persist with your coronary heart. If the present guy even if needs you after that then he's a keeper and also you need to purpose to grant it yet another shot and rather positioned attempt into the courting this time.
2016-11-26 20:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. Stop being such a flake. And stop watching so many stupid thriller movies... that kind of thing doesn't happen in the real world.
Still concerned? Then get some MACE and if she comes around and physically threatens you, then spray her F-ing eyeball out w/ the liquid MACE.
MACE in the FACE is the best solution... she'll get the point and never bother him or you again.
2006-07-28 06:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a hard descision. If u really like this guy I would try to get to get to know his ex better if it turns out she's as wierd as her notes r I would definatly dump him but still stay good friends. he needs to figure out who he really wants and u need to get out such a high drama relationship. But who knows the girl might not be as bad as the notes she writes. Best of luck !!!
2006-07-28 06:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by Gilmore101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move around b 4 u get hurt.
2006-07-28 06:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to make him choose >< if you dont totally confront him abt it .ur gunna get hurt >< and that's never a good feeling. if he won't choose. move on.it's not worth it. ^^
--good luck! stay strong!
2006-07-28 06:28:25 · answer #10 · answered by iD2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋