what is the main reason more women don't have casual sex is it because they dont want to be branded a s l u t

Question

by society or because they have no desire to or some other reason?

Answer 1

There are many reasons to why we wouldn't want to give ourselves away to just any person. Well, I'm not speaking for those who like to sleep around, but for the average women.

1. Women rather make love than have just sex. Why would we wont to let some guy get intimate with us when there is no love there in the first place? To the guy it means nothing to take someone intimate part with them, but for us it means everything. Giving yourself away to just anyone does a lot of damage spiritual and physically.

2. Sex can lead to unwanted pregnancy. I'm sure most of the time when people have sex it has nothing to do with getting pregnant, but more to do with pleasure. Many times the woman and the man are not thinking about having a family. So we do not have casual sex because we don't want to get pregnant with someone that is not going to be our lifelong partner. Does it make sense to get pregnant with someone who isn't going to be around or care for your child? Well I don't know about the others, but not me. You guys have it easy you know. You bang the girl and you are free to go, but the girl you got pregnant isn't so lucky carrying a child and having to go through the pain of labor without the father around. You guys don't have to worry about this big thing coming out of you while you scream from the pain.

3. Sex is like a weapon you can get killed from it if you are misfortune enough to do it with someone who has AIDS or STD's. Now anyone who has some braincells know that those who have casual sex have a higher chance getting an STD. Now you can be a little luck and get one of the ones where you can get treatment for and be able to live a normal life, but what if you get AIDS? There you are trading on night of pleasure for your life span. The worst thing is even if you don't get an STD there is a high possiblity that you will regret giving yourself to someone who has no love for you.

4. Sleeping around is not good for your reputation. No matter what a man might say about wanting a woman who is willing to share her intimate part with him, he will most likely not want to marry a slut later on in life. Right now they pressure you to have sex with them and tell you that its not big deal. They even lie and say they love you and that it will be for ever. Once they get what they want, they leave or go to the next conquest. Once you give yourself with anyone that comes your way, how many man will want to marry you after going around the world a couple of times? Be honest men. You might marry a woman who have slept with a few partners not more than 3 I will assume, but anything over and I don't think most of you would want her as a wife. When you man think about your mother do you think of her as being a former slut or a moral woman? When you look at your sister would you like to think of her as a whore or a nice girl? And when you think about your wife would you like to think you were her first or 1 of many? Think about it.

So you see, some of us are smart enough not to fall this trap. Now you want us to put out, so later on you can dump us for some good girl. If you can't figure out why many women will not put out easily than you are missing some major braincells up there. So stop with your stupid question because the answer is very obvious.

Answer 2

in 2006 a lot of women are having casual sex and I don't feel like there is anything wrong with it. i don't think anyone should care about being called a slut because men are ones too and just cause your a man doesn't mean you get to be called a "pimp" your a hoe too!. but for real, casual sex nowadays is not cool for anyone...with all these diseases and aids on the rise i hope people are being cautious. ask for your partner to bring some std results and then rock each others world...don't be ashamed and always use a condom

Answer 3

For your information, it's because their aren't that many men out there that know how to get a woman interested in having sex with them. Makes sense if you think about it.

Women don't want to feel like "s!uts" as you so bluntly put it, and just having casual sex with someone they really aren't that interested in would do just that. Reflect on past experiences while considering this and you'll see what I mean.

Answer 4

depends on the way they brought up and influnences around them if they saw ppl havin casul sex all the time then they would but if the saw 1 person do it and they wher ebullied 4 it then that put them off so it depends on there past expreince persanlly if that is the way a girl wnts 2 do it. its her life and her choice so no 1 has teh rite 2 have ago at her about it

Answer 5

The "main" reason is that there are more potential life-long consequences for a woman engaging in casual sex, like, for example, babies.

Answer 6

Well Jeremy,
That depends on if you are sleeping with "mature" or "adolescent" women.

and by the way, loved the one about your friend crapping his pants in your car. I laughed so hard that I cried. That was the funnist darn thing I have read here. I too would of been at a loss for words. It was hilarious!!!

Answer 7

I think the lable has a lot to do with it, and most of us have been brought up to think that if we do sleep around that we are s_u_l_t_s. And we also do not want to be labled as easy either. We do have desire, lust, etc. we just hide it a hell of a lot better then you men.

Answer 8

Because we tend to add emotion to sex. It's not just sex, like most guys think.

Answer 9

The man always enjoys the sex, but it's hard to find a guy that's good enough to be worth it. ;)

Answer 10

Yes. But there are other things too. Such as getting pregnant, getting diseases/STDs. We get more emotionally attached to people than guys do.