I've juz turned 21 tis yr.. n thru online chats.. magazines.. etc, have got to know quite some info abt masturbating.. hav been trying it out myselves since i tink abt last yr or so.. n i realli enjoyed it..
i tink i'm so addicted to it such dat i can do it abt 3x a day?? n i get aroused easily when i watch tv wif close personal contact..
Nw i'm worried if i have a bf, will i be too easily aroused n scare him off??
[ p/s: i've only had 1 bf b4 n we did nothing more than kissing n hugging.. :( ]
2006-07-28 06:16:45 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as you don't let it take over your life, you will be fine. You shouldn't worry about it until the situation comes up because you don't know how you will react, or you will just be scared for a long time, ya know?
2006-07-28 06:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by ~J♥L♥L~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being a gentleman of some experience in the ways and means of Eros, I would suggest that your hair trigger arousal will naught but enhance future, intimate relationships. And very few, red-blooded men would be "scared off" by a woman who gets "turned on." Just don't let it turn you into an easy mark: stick to your standards. If he's not your type (or a total asshole or you just met a hour ago), go home and...you guessed it...masturbate.
If it should turn out that you're so into auto-erotica that you like your own sensations better than the attentions of some fumbling 20-something male, still no problem. And so called 'mutual masturbation'--doing it together with your mate--is one of the sexiest sex acts going (not to mention tha last word in 'safe sex').
And by the way, lighten up. It's not an 'addiction' unless it causes you harm. Think of it as a hobby, or training. Just enjoy yourself and worry about other things; like how you're going to afford some of those amazing high-tech dildos available these days ;-)
2006-07-28 06:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Well, first, you really need to f*ucking learn how to spell and write like a human being.
Second. There's an upside and a downside. The upside is that you are becoming more sexual and most guys will like that. Chicks with a strong sex drive are what brought forth the word "hot". The downside is that you might "prefer" your own treatment of your body to your bf's - and there is NOTHING worse than a girl telling a guy how to do her. Nothing. If you spend half your time thinking of getting off "the guy", you can guard against this.
Be into the guy, and learn how to type and communicate like someone other than a ghetto rat, and you'll be fine.
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2006-07-28 06:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maturbation is part and parcel of growing up. there's nothing wrong with it provided we know the limits and dont affect our daily routines. have a better control of your will power and discipline in this matter. you'll be alright.
its fulfilling fantasies and realising creations for a better sex life.
nothing is all good nor bad and it takes a mixture of both in life.
you're doing fine by being a "good girl " with boyfriend...lol.
realise fantasy from reality and you'll be fine too. masturbation will relieve your arousal and it helps and does good in this instance?
once you've found Mr Right, let yourself go and its about time to turn fantasy into reality but not before that?
you're doing fine there, realise between fantasy and reality.
2006-07-28 13:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I say if you do it 3 times a day. and your future b/f isn't a *** he wouldn't have any promblems that means you get horny quick meaning you'll want sex all the time if hes a man he can handle it ;) lol..I think you have alot of time in your hands if you do it 3 times a day try getting busy with stuff clean the house or something so you can like try and not think about it? but heh your not alone I bet..
2006-07-28 06:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by Elite Soldier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only concern I would have as a guy is, are you ruining yourself with "toys"?
I'm talking about toys that do everything but change the oil in your car.
I posted a question about toys ruining women for their men.
One lady said, even tho she's married, she still uses a toy because her husband can't satisfy her like her toy does - which only emphasized my point.
A gal masturbating in front of a guy is way hot.
2006-07-28 06:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being comfortable with your body is GREAT! It means you will be able to show your next bf how to make you c u m, among other things. What you need to be careful of is nerve damage. If you lift up the "hood" around your clitoris you can cause serious damage to that sensitive area. Make sure the hood stays down!!!!
2006-07-28 06:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by BlondeBooBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There aint nothing wrong with masturbating, hell the **** damn near safer than having sex, just make sure you wash ur fingers before and after, some men like to watch their girl masturbate and besides when you cant get none you all always got ur fingers!!!!
2006-07-28 06:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by lyric_8273 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easily aroused sounds good to me.
tho if you are addicted to masturbation then you may not be able to perform when it comes time. i saw it on some movie and found out that it is an actual mental disease and that it really does affect performance.
2006-07-28 06:21:21 · answer #9 · answered by a_playa04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is any kind of a man he will love it. all men get aroused when they watch a girl play with herself. they even think it is better than watching porn, because it is a live show and they can get some action after you are done.
2006-07-28 06:23:42 · answer #10 · answered by princess_anne_2009 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋