Continue.. she called me everynight we was in love then she broke up with her b/f because he didnt payed attention to her nor nothing and treated her bad and cheated on her.. but then he came back like saying he was sorry and making her feel bad about breaking up so she started changing alot now shes dating him again but she says she still loves me and blah blah I can't belive I got attached to this girl I just cant let go so easily It's that thing in my head I dont know if you've ever had it were You will sit back one day and wonder what would have happen if you woouldnt have moved on that quick? ... Weve known each other for almost a year never got to date we were though but I guess she just felt bad for her ex Or she really never let him go and used me as a back up? I dont know what to do
2006-07-28 06:14:10 · 2 answers · asked by Elite Soldier 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is bad timing. it is not meant to be at this moment. whatever the problem is, the result right now is that u guys are not right for each other. if she really loves you, she would let the other guy go and be with you. if she is too weak to do that, and feels 'bad' for the other guy....she is not being fair to herself, that guy, AND you! is that the kind of girlfriend you want? u need someone who is strong, who can support u emotionally, mentally, as well as physically. if u love her, u would let her go too..to let her do what she needs to do, make her own decisions in life. if she comes back to you, start fresh and clean Together, not attached to someone else or in a sticky situation. i would advise u to just working on urself, make urself confident that you are a great person, great friend, great boyfriend, great son, etc, and you will realize that hey, you deserve a girl that appreciates you, just as you appreciate her. once u feel that u deserve better, u won't settle for anything less. and i'm not saying she's bad, or she doesn't love you..that's not the point. the point is that right now she is not able to give u her 100%.... and that means ur relationship w/ her will NOT work. wait for her, or wait for someone who wants to give u her 100%, and u want to do the same for her.
2006-07-28 06:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let her go man. If she wanted to be with YOU, she'd be with YOU.
Sorry.. I know how it feels and it sucks :-(
2006-07-28 13:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by dyno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋