ok heres the scenario..your sitting in a large quiet study room near some girl. this quiet study room is in the main floorof your campus residence. well your sitting there and it is really loud outside so she gets up and closes the window and says its really loud outside and you say yeah and from then on you guys talk a bit asking what each others taking and what each other is studying for. note that this girl does have a boyfriend. you see her again outside walking with her boyfriend and she says hi and you say. you see her again in the same study room in the evening with her boyfriend you guys say hey again and this time she asks how your test went.what would come to your mind? would you think she likes you? would you think shes flirting with you? would you think she's trying to hit on you? or just being polite and nice? what would you interpret it as? remember you guys only talked for a few minutes before and she was the first to start up conversation with you...
2006-07-28 06:12:37 · 23 answers · asked by goliathrox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be considered flirting. Or she could just be genuinely friendly.
Generally, at least in my area (new Jersey), people don't go out of thier way to be friendly.
I would consider it flirting, but wouldn't put too much into it know that she has a boyfriend.
2006-07-28 06:19:50 · answer #1 · answered by billm_07456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well guess u are hoping that she likes you and she's actually flirting with you cause she looks quite good. my interpretation will be, what she did was just an act of friendliness. people with friendly personality will get along with almost anyone and they can have any chat topics as long as they want it. and they too definitely know that you may misunderstood them thinking that they are flirting. they won't bother much though. even if you got the guts to propose to them, they can easily deny it and finally they'll have the last laugh and since then you'll be called loser, which i'm sure u'll hate it really much. in such situation, no matter who starts the conversation, if you feel like being friend, and i mean only friend and no further, with her, then go ahead. else just a simple hi each time u all meet will be enough. if u can't get her out of your mind, then just sit there and wait. when she's back to single again then u hit on her.
2006-07-28 13:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by wormhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy can relate to that, but you're in that gray area where things could lend themselves to any number of possible interpretations. You all could have a spark of some detectable chemistry, or she could just be the friendly type genuinely interested in your test results ( why, I don't know)...the thing is, no matter what the "real" deal is, she's still got a boyfriend, and until you two have a great deal more dialog...don't get your hopes up, but don't get down about it either. Life's always in a state of flux, and that's as promising a start as any you're likely to ever get; at least you're on her radar. Good luck.
2006-07-28 13:22:38 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me:
She would just seem like a really sweet person. Somebody that you would want to have as a friend for sure. Then again, she could be naturally flirtatious or really sociable.
In either case, keep the conversations going - she's bound to have some friends she might be able to hook you up with.
If you think you could really start to like her - keep the conversations and salutations going. In the event things don't work out with her and her current boyfriend, you already have one foot in the door.
2006-07-28 13:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by Serious Business 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe she looking for new friends, saw the right moment in time to talk to this guy and I really think that she was just being polite.
2006-07-28 13:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by sparks2228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you desperate, needy or just plain lonely. She has a boyfriend, right. So she's just being friendly. Can't a girl be friendly with a guy without other ideas popping into their head. Maybe her boyfriend might convince you if you're not careful........
2006-07-28 13:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls are sweet and friendly.
Not everything is sexual, regardless of how attractive they are.
She's simply being friendly, that's what the "hi" was about with her boyfriend: "See, I have a boyfriend, but I'd still like to talk."
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2006-07-28 13:19:26 · answer #7 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that you are being polite ,but some guys would think other so good luck have you heard of "i would not give him the time of day " be careful the world is full of nuts
2006-07-28 13:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by teamsenior1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think she's into you from that little bit of a conversation you guys had then you're crazy! just do me a favor and dont start stalkin the chick. Thats how people ruin it for guys who really do "just wanna be friends"
2006-07-28 13:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by clove0307 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We were trying to get you into a 3 some -- but you were too shy or stupid -- so we found someone else --
love the boyfriend
2006-07-28 13:33:05 · answer #10 · answered by Smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋